Friday, December 28, 2007
One 'those' weeks
Actually I think it has been months.....I officially celebrated 4 and a half months or 19 weeks of being in a below the knee cast and 6 weeks post surgical correction. I should win some kind of award. If you talk to my husband, that award would be that I get to wait on him now. If any of you know me...you know that ain't going to happen. I might reward him in some way....have to think on that one.
Anyway......it was a full moon Christmas eve and let me tell you it has been one loopy whirlwind week...and it isn't over. My newest grand-nephew L was just released from the hospital today after being there for the week with RSV. My FIL didn't know who I was (he had a stroke almost 2 years ago and is rapidly declining). One of my sisters fell down her basement stairs and broke her foot so we put her in a cast. Patients came out of the woodwork this week all trying to get into the office before their new deductible hits Jan 1st. Then we were blessed today with snow.
One more Christmas to go....my family's is this Sunday at my parent's house. Yes, I am bringing headache medicine and maybe something stronger. We do an exchange there...my brothers, sisters, and spouses all exchange names; then the older kids exchange names; and then the younger ones exchange names. We have my one brother and his wife who have yet to give us any clue as to what they want. Now any of you who know me know not to do that to me. They get what I want to get them then and I have been known to deliberately shop at a sex shop for items. I still have tomorrow to decide if I will do this or not. Son has one of my nieces names who was easy to do although he had us pick up the gift as he states he won't walk into a smelly store (Bath and Body Works).
Cross your fingers and toes that I get a walking cast Monday when I go back to the doctor. And cross your fingers I don't have the newest Chia Pet leg...I swear cast material has miracle grow.....2 weeks ago I could braid the leg hair.
Tuesday, December 25, 2007
Merry Christmas to all!
I don't know what all of you are doing....but I thought I would amuse myself by playing the game now and then............
Then: Hubs and I would get the munchkins to bed after midnight mass then start wrapping presents and putting things together. I will never forget the time hubs was putting a big wheels together for our daughter and of course didn't read the directions. The handlebars went on backwards...problem was they snapped it and wouldn't come out. I went to bed at 4am and he was still cussing. Kids got up at 6am. They wouldn't wake us up...instead they would stare at us giggling until we woke up. Then it was a mad dash downstairs for presents. Then breakfast then naps.
Now: It's 6:09PM CST and I am patiently waiting on daughter and fiance to come over for dinner (which is supposed to be served at 6:30PM) and presents. After midnight mass, hubs and I went to bed and then slept in this morning and woke up to a phone call from one of my sisters who fell down some stairs and has a Jones fracture. I gave her hints on how to cope and booked her an appointment for tomorrow. The ER put her in a splint. This afternoon we finished wrapping presents we had not done yet, stuffed stockings, did the dishes from yesterday, set the table and started dinner. Nice...quiet...relaxing. Presents after dinner.
Then: mad flurry of wrapping paper flying through the air punctuated with cries of yes and did you see what I got.....no order...complete chaos.
Now: We take turns unwrapping presents so each gets to see what the other gets. In some ways it is more of a pain because I make sure each kid has the same amount of presents to open.
Then: Someone was always sick for the holiday...and inevitably we all would get it, always destroying hubs and I celebrating the New Year.
Now: I send them home to their houses.
Then: We could leave unwrapped presents out under the tree.
Now: We always have to wrap and now it's fancy paper with bows.
Then: Christmas cards and presents were always done and sent the day after Thanksgiving.
Now: I did the Christmas letter, printed them off, stuffed them in envelopes, but I have yet to drop them in a mailbox. I bought Christmas gifts for friends, but I have yet to send them. Well, actually even put them in the boxes I got to send them off.
Then: Christmas present unwrapping was done in robes and no makeup and no coffee.
Now: Makeup is on. Clothes are on. Coffee way way earlier....now into decaf because caffeine would keep us awake all night.
Then: We would find remnants of wrapping paper everywhere for days after. We would be lucky to find the family room floor and even luckier to get the kids to put their new things away after a week.
Now: Wrapping paper is bagged for garbage as we unwrap. Kids tidy up their piles and son takes his to his bedroom...daughter takes hers home. Hubs and I take care of our own piles. Family room back to order within 3 hours.
Then: I would have just the kids who were into their presents so I would have peace and quiet for a few days and lots of leftovers so I didn't have to cook.
Now: I have to work tomorrow. And early.
So Merry Christmas all!
Sunday, December 23, 2007
Christmas Song Titles
In the spirit of the Season, see if you can decipher the following Christmas song titles...the 1st I did as an example:
• Move thitherward the entire assembly of those who are loyal in their beliefs.
Answer: Oh Come All Ye Faithful
• Listen, the celestial messengers produce harmonious sounds.
• Nocturnal timespan of unbroken quietness.
• Embellish the interior passageways.
• Exalted heavenly beings to who hearkened.
• Twelve O'clock on a clement night witnessed its arrival.
• The Christmas preceding all others.
• Diminutive masculine master of skin-covered percussionistic cylinders.
• Omnipotent Supreme Being who elicits respite to ecstatic distinguished males.
• Obese personification fabricated of compressed mounds of minute crystals of water
• Expectation of arrival to populated area by mythical, masculine gift-giver.
• Natal celebration devoid of color.
• Move thitherward the entire assembly of those who are loyal in their beliefs.
Answer: Oh Come All Ye Faithful
• Listen, the celestial messengers produce harmonious sounds.
• Nocturnal timespan of unbroken quietness.
• Embellish the interior passageways.
• Exalted heavenly beings to who hearkened.
• Twelve O'clock on a clement night witnessed its arrival.
• The Christmas preceding all others.
• Diminutive masculine master of skin-covered percussionistic cylinders.
• Omnipotent Supreme Being who elicits respite to ecstatic distinguished males.
• Obese personification fabricated of compressed mounds of minute crystals of water
• Expectation of arrival to populated area by mythical, masculine gift-giver.
• Natal celebration devoid of color.
Thursday, December 13, 2007
Wednesday, December 12, 2007
Christmas Carol Game Time
This game is easy. All you have to do is look at each image and post which Christmas Carol the image portrays. I will start with #1....answer would be Jingle Bells. You do 2-8. Don't worry I have more for tomorrow...prize for the most that are correct: to be determined....maybe some homemade cookies but if M wins then I have to come up with something that can be sent overseas....Good luck :)
Sunday, December 9, 2007
Making a list.... checking it twice....
Today I am finishing my Christmas list of things to do. OMG when did it get to only 16 days before Christmas? It seems to come so fast and as I age....faster and faster. I remember thinking when I was 16 how far away 18 seemed. These days at 53, time passes me by so fast and I can't seem to make it slow down.
I have pretty well gotten most on my list and seeing what has to be finished and am starting my Christmas cookie and shopping list. I had another setback this week so my activities are being restricted again.
Today's project is making sure I have everyone done on my list. The family we provide for has been done. The abused shelter has been done. Hub's family exchange has been done. I am still waiting on my brother and his wife to give me an idea of what they want for that exchange. Cards have been made for our employees and the 4 mail people. Hubs and I decided on only stocking things this year and they have to be under $50.00 since we are doing the countertops and cooktop and have the wedding. Each of the kids are getting one big gift and then a few small ones to go into their stockings. I, like most parents, always make sure even to this day that each child has the same number of gifts to open.
I must say I hate being almost done and not being able to participate in doing any of the shopping or seeing things decorated. I keep thinking I need more things although I know I have spent enough. Do you ever find you just pick up more things if you do finish early?
Friday, December 7, 2007
Snow
For once Chicago area has been bombarded with snow and it is sticking! Most people from this area know that although we get snow this time of year, it rarely sticks as our temps bounce above and below 40 a lot. It was just a few years ago I remember Christmas being a balmy 60 degrees. We have a family tradition of playing football in the snow and it has been years since we actually played football in the snow.
I thought I would post some pics of our recent snow...more is expected tonight and this weekend. I think I heard our area has gotten 8 inches already.
Here is a pic of the top of one of our patio tables.
This pic is of one of our bulldog granddoggies trying to squat in the snow to do her business.
This is of the other granddoggie bulldog trying to jump through the snow.
And finally, a pic of one of our concrete deer that normally rests in the middle of one of the front flower beds but with the new landscaping, he had not made it back to his regular spot yet so he sits in the middle of the front yard...as you can see only his head is showing.
I thought I would post some pics of our recent snow...more is expected tonight and this weekend. I think I heard our area has gotten 8 inches already.
Here is a pic of the top of one of our patio tables.
This pic is of one of our bulldog granddoggies trying to squat in the snow to do her business.
This is of the other granddoggie bulldog trying to jump through the snow.
And finally, a pic of one of our concrete deer that normally rests in the middle of one of the front flower beds but with the new landscaping, he had not made it back to his regular spot yet so he sits in the middle of the front yard...as you can see only his head is showing.
Sunday, December 2, 2007
Decorating for the Holidays
"It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas..." We are decorating the house today. As you can see it started with my new cast I got put on Friday after they removed the sutures. I would have taken a picture of the smiley faces but truthfully I forgot the camera. Purty? Then we got an inch of snow and ice yesterday....ground covered.....Sure put me in a festive mood!
So I decided we were decorating today. I hired my daughter to help decorate the house. Her price: a pot of beef vegetable soup. Of course I negotiated her down to a half pot....but threw in a homemade loaf of oatnut bread. Son tried to negotiate too....but I got him down to dinner for free (I have been making him pay rent and for dinners since he is 24 and still living at home).
Only thing we needed was the tree. In the old days, we would make a day trip and go to this farm in Wisconsin to chop a tree down ourselves but haven't done that in a few years. I called the farm we normally get ours from and they had actually chopped some down and brought them to IL and were selling some in a nearby town. The family knows what we usually got so they chopped 2 down for us and brought them down. Hubs went to pick them up today (one for daughter and one for us). OMG it is gorgeous! As a thank you for doing that for us, I sent hubs with a 9x13 pan of homemade lasagna and some pizzelles which they were already cooking before hubs left the lot.
Pot of homemade vegetable soup simmering on the stove......4 loaves of oatnut bread cooling on the counter. No pain pills needed today yet....life is good!
As I sit here watching my family decorate....I leave you today with a quote from Maya Angelou:
"I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights."
Thursday, November 29, 2007
Living
Thanks for all the emails and concern. I have good days and bad days and good and bad days combined into one. I go back to the doctor tomorrow to have stitches removed and be recasted. I am pretty sure I will be sporting a Christmas themed cast complete with santas and trees.
Anyway, there is a reason why I posted a smiley face. My surgeon gave me a smiley face on each side of the ankle. The slits for the eyes are about 2 inches above each side of the ankle and the smiley face starts 1 inch outside of one eye slit and goes down to the bottom of the side of the foot then back up to an inch on the outside of the other eye slit. Seems my surgeon has a sense of humor. I haven't decided if I do yet although my right cankles will now sport smiley face scars on the inside and out. Maybe it will be a new fashion statement.
I thought I was doing lots better. Seemed to have more energy so yesterday decided to go to one of the offices. The main office girl's mother was having a triple bypass open heart surgery. She insisted on working since she didn't feel she could sit at the hospital all day with her husband dying just over a year ago. So she worked but I thought I had better get my rear in there just in case she had to leave so I went to work. Yeah....not as strong as I thought I was getting. Went straight to bed with ice bags and drugs. Got up this morning and went to another office for 3 hours.....then realized I did way too much and the whole leg went back into what is called a peroneal spasm. So dear hubs gave me another shot in the knee and knocked out the spasm and took me home, put me in bed and I had orders to stay there. I obeyed.
But during the day I received 2 deliveries.....one a huge fruit basket fom Edible Arrangements from the group of doctors I do consulting work for with a message that was a riot: Ok all right all ready....time to stop lollygagging around and get back to work...we miss you!. awwwww..... The other delivery was a basket from dear friends (thanks Jeff and Lisa) with books, magazines, Godiva chocolates, a cute Hallmark ornament called a shoe tree, and a stuffed pig. For those of you who don't get it....I have pig parts in my ankle holding it back together. What was really funny was their card: "Sorry to hear you've been laid out...ooops I mean laid away....no, no, make that laid up....or do I mean laid down....uh...laid back...er...laid over...well, whichever way you've been laid...hope you get laid the right way!
I leave you today with a remark my husband said to me as he watched me get ready for bed last night....."Did you know your breasts are in a race to see which will reach your waist first?"
Yep my crutches were used once again as a javelin and hit their mark!
Monday, November 26, 2007
Recuperating
I missed posting this pic for you for Thanksgiving.....so am posting it now.
Happy Belated Thanksgiving!
Well, I feel my age. People told me that as one ages, it is harder to recuperate from having surgery. I totally believe them now. My surgery was the 15th and I have been mainly on my rear most of the time. I have managed to get some work done between anti-inflammatory meds since they knock me out but remembering things is hard. Hubs had an emergency patient this past weekend and sent him for some bloodwork. Well, we can access the results now via a secure log in....no problem you say? Yeah well every 15 days it asks you to change your password so I changed it. I have no idea what I changed it to so we had to call the hospital to have it reset. All I can say is this surgery has been harder to recuperate from than I ever expected. Up until last Friday I had hot poker shooting pains coming from my ankle to the knee and then to the hip. I rarely slept and Thanksgiving I spent on the floor of our family room floor snuggling with the doggies while hubs and kids went to his parent's house. I was perfectly fine with that. They brought me home a doggie bag but I had hubs make me an omelette as my tummy gets nauseated from pain and pain meds. Last Friday hubs took me to his office and took off my cast and gave me a nerve block into my right knee which promptly put my leg to sleep and ended those nasty spasms. I haven't had one since which is doing a lot for my mood. Hubs called me a bear with a thorn in its paw.....I think he was being nice. I was a bitch.
So I am still not allowed to return to work at the offices yet but can work at home. I am catching up on the sleep I didn't get the past week or so and yesterday slept 12 hours all in a row. I couldn't believe it. Slowly I feel my energy coming back. Friday I get the stitches out and recasted. Maybe I can start going back to work then.
Happy Belated Thanksgiving!
Well, I feel my age. People told me that as one ages, it is harder to recuperate from having surgery. I totally believe them now. My surgery was the 15th and I have been mainly on my rear most of the time. I have managed to get some work done between anti-inflammatory meds since they knock me out but remembering things is hard. Hubs had an emergency patient this past weekend and sent him for some bloodwork. Well, we can access the results now via a secure log in....no problem you say? Yeah well every 15 days it asks you to change your password so I changed it. I have no idea what I changed it to so we had to call the hospital to have it reset. All I can say is this surgery has been harder to recuperate from than I ever expected. Up until last Friday I had hot poker shooting pains coming from my ankle to the knee and then to the hip. I rarely slept and Thanksgiving I spent on the floor of our family room floor snuggling with the doggies while hubs and kids went to his parent's house. I was perfectly fine with that. They brought me home a doggie bag but I had hubs make me an omelette as my tummy gets nauseated from pain and pain meds. Last Friday hubs took me to his office and took off my cast and gave me a nerve block into my right knee which promptly put my leg to sleep and ended those nasty spasms. I haven't had one since which is doing a lot for my mood. Hubs called me a bear with a thorn in its paw.....I think he was being nice. I was a bitch.
So I am still not allowed to return to work at the offices yet but can work at home. I am catching up on the sleep I didn't get the past week or so and yesterday slept 12 hours all in a row. I couldn't believe it. Slowly I feel my energy coming back. Friday I get the stitches out and recasted. Maybe I can start going back to work then.
Saturday, November 17, 2007
Learning to be a patient
Yeah...not easy when you are trained to be a nurse. I am the patient from hell. I admit it. I do not like being confined or told to stay in bed. This is driving me nuts. I have never eaten in bed in my life. That's all I have been doing since surgery. I feel crumbs everywhere although I have yet to find one. I caught on to hubs today when I managed to keep my eyes open for more than an hour. He has been keeping me drugged. Probably cuz he knows I wouldn't stay in bed otherwise and this way I am quieter too.
I used to think all I wanted was peace and quiet and to just lay in bed and do nothing. Well, it's not all it is cracked up to be. My husband made me get last night and helped me take a shower. That made me feel a wee bit better although doing things with a cast protector on and non-weight bearing and in severe pain when I put my foot in any other position than up was an hour long occasion. By the time I got back in bed, I was ready to be knocked out for hours. Which amazingly I did. I slept 12 straight hours last night.
Son hooked up my computer today for me and I managed to stay awake for an entire movie (I wed me)...corny but cute. I will admit it feels nice to be waited on. OP report not up yet so can't say what occurred cept I was told I have pig parts in me. In some ways I am thankful since there seems to be a lot of people getting AIDS from donated parts. Pigs don't get AIDS.
Right now I am watching the Magnificent Mile 2007 Lights Festival...an amazing parade and festival on the magnificent mile in Chicago on Michigan Avenue. It is something you need to see at least once in your lifetime. It is gorgeous! Hopefully dinner is being cooked....cuz I am getting hungry!
I used to think all I wanted was peace and quiet and to just lay in bed and do nothing. Well, it's not all it is cracked up to be. My husband made me get last night and helped me take a shower. That made me feel a wee bit better although doing things with a cast protector on and non-weight bearing and in severe pain when I put my foot in any other position than up was an hour long occasion. By the time I got back in bed, I was ready to be knocked out for hours. Which amazingly I did. I slept 12 straight hours last night.
Son hooked up my computer today for me and I managed to stay awake for an entire movie (I wed me)...corny but cute. I will admit it feels nice to be waited on. OP report not up yet so can't say what occurred cept I was told I have pig parts in me. In some ways I am thankful since there seems to be a lot of people getting AIDS from donated parts. Pigs don't get AIDS.
Right now I am watching the Magnificent Mile 2007 Lights Festival...an amazing parade and festival on the magnificent mile in Chicago on Michigan Avenue. It is something you need to see at least once in your lifetime. It is gorgeous! Hopefully dinner is being cooked....cuz I am getting hungry!
Tuesday, November 13, 2007
Countdown - 35 hours to go
It's been literally crazy here. I am down to my last 35 hours and still have bunches left to do. This morning I woke up to the landscapers ringing my doorbell at 6am along with I swear hundreds of men (all speaking a foreign language). How the haydees can anyone be happy at that hour? Our front lawn looks like it was stripped naked. I am waiting to post pics until they are done cuz the transformation is amazing already. I can't wait to see everything in full bloom and how it will change per season. They are still putting in a stone wall on either side of the house so I imagine they will be back tomorrow bright and early. I did tell them they did not have to tell me they were there tomorrow.
As for the roof: they couldn't get the one we picked out so last week I picked out another that was close to what the one we had picked out. Hubs wasn't around. Never in my wildest dreams would I have thought he would have cared. Believe me it was like I lost his remote. OMG.....I swear it was male pms week. I picked out Tamko's Heritage AR/50 Thunderstorm Gray which was close to the GAF we had picked out. They upgraded us from a 40 year roof to a 50 because of the delay at no extra charge. He swears the tile has green in it. I say gray has some green in it but you are looking at it up close. It will be going on your 2nd story roof so it won't show the green unless you get out a ladder and climb it and put your nose next to it. Not good enough. The man had to get out the ladder and take a bundle of shingles and lay them out on the roof to prove his point. I still saw no green but he swears he does. So he says...pick what ever you want. Should not have believed that. I chose to stay with what I had picked out. For the past 4 days the man has been dragging everyone he could to see the shingles and then added up who saw green and who didn't. So I said fine - change the danged thing. I don't need the hassle - I have a list to finish. So we changed the roof. At this point the roofer made him sign this is the last time he is allowed to change the order.
**sigh** 35 hours to go to lala land.
As for the roof: they couldn't get the one we picked out so last week I picked out another that was close to what the one we had picked out. Hubs wasn't around. Never in my wildest dreams would I have thought he would have cared. Believe me it was like I lost his remote. OMG.....I swear it was male pms week. I picked out Tamko's Heritage AR/50 Thunderstorm Gray which was close to the GAF we had picked out. They upgraded us from a 40 year roof to a 50 because of the delay at no extra charge. He swears the tile has green in it. I say gray has some green in it but you are looking at it up close. It will be going on your 2nd story roof so it won't show the green unless you get out a ladder and climb it and put your nose next to it. Not good enough. The man had to get out the ladder and take a bundle of shingles and lay them out on the roof to prove his point. I still saw no green but he swears he does. So he says...pick what ever you want. Should not have believed that. I chose to stay with what I had picked out. For the past 4 days the man has been dragging everyone he could to see the shingles and then added up who saw green and who didn't. So I said fine - change the danged thing. I don't need the hassle - I have a list to finish. So we changed the roof. At this point the roofer made him sign this is the last time he is allowed to change the order.
**sigh** 35 hours to go to lala land.
Saturday, November 10, 2007
Countdown
Ever since my doctor scheduled surgery I have been doing all those things you just need to get done before you do anything. You know those things...the ones you put off for a rainy day then you realize how long you have procrastinated on them and just do them. So I made a list of things I wanted to get done before surgery. We are now into countdown.
I have stockpiled my vitamins, made a pot of beef vegetable soup and canned it today and made 12 dozen pizzelles (anise, lemon, chocolate, and tried a new one: almond which tasted great!). I would have done more today but I had to work for most of the day. Tomorrow I am planning on making a pot of pea soup and canning that along with making a pan of lasagna and a pan of stuffed shells. I figure that I can't mess up my already fubarred ankle any more so cooking this weekend won't hurt it.
A friend reminded me that I needed to get rid of all my latest journal writings (those notebooks I write in to let off steam and anger and disappointment) as a just in case. So they went into the shredder today. I added another envelope to the safe for each kid and my husband (I have done this since hubs and I got married just in case something ever happened to me). I try to update the letter at least yearly and tell them about the year and my thoughts and feeling about who they are becoming and how much I love them, etc. I highlight positive things that happened to them that year.
I went to the bookstore last night to add to my already 3 foot high stack of TBR books (just in case I ran out of reading material). I picked up Water for Elephants, Three Cups of Tea, and a couple of others whose names escape me at this time.
I have done a shopping list for things for Thanksgiving although I won't be going anywhere and no one is allowed to enter my house. Hubs and the kids are going to his mother's house for a few hours so I figure the dogs and I will take a well needed nap then get served dinner in bed. We will still make our standard 1200 cappelletti on Wednesday and I will make the pumpkin pies with the help of my daughter. I plan on making a fresh turkey with dressing either Fri or Sat for just our family.
I have actually started Christmas shopping already and have already ordered quite a few things. I figure I will not be able to get out much except for work (if that) for a while so I gotta get my rear in gear and get as much done as possible now.
All bills have been paid for the month. Roof goes on Monday unless it rains. Landscaper starts Tuesday. I will post before and after pics. I am getting excited!
I have stockpiled my vitamins, made a pot of beef vegetable soup and canned it today and made 12 dozen pizzelles (anise, lemon, chocolate, and tried a new one: almond which tasted great!). I would have done more today but I had to work for most of the day. Tomorrow I am planning on making a pot of pea soup and canning that along with making a pan of lasagna and a pan of stuffed shells. I figure that I can't mess up my already fubarred ankle any more so cooking this weekend won't hurt it.
A friend reminded me that I needed to get rid of all my latest journal writings (those notebooks I write in to let off steam and anger and disappointment) as a just in case. So they went into the shredder today. I added another envelope to the safe for each kid and my husband (I have done this since hubs and I got married just in case something ever happened to me). I try to update the letter at least yearly and tell them about the year and my thoughts and feeling about who they are becoming and how much I love them, etc. I highlight positive things that happened to them that year.
I went to the bookstore last night to add to my already 3 foot high stack of TBR books (just in case I ran out of reading material). I picked up Water for Elephants, Three Cups of Tea, and a couple of others whose names escape me at this time.
I have done a shopping list for things for Thanksgiving although I won't be going anywhere and no one is allowed to enter my house. Hubs and the kids are going to his mother's house for a few hours so I figure the dogs and I will take a well needed nap then get served dinner in bed. We will still make our standard 1200 cappelletti on Wednesday and I will make the pumpkin pies with the help of my daughter. I plan on making a fresh turkey with dressing either Fri or Sat for just our family.
I have actually started Christmas shopping already and have already ordered quite a few things. I figure I will not be able to get out much except for work (if that) for a while so I gotta get my rear in gear and get as much done as possible now.
All bills have been paid for the month. Roof goes on Monday unless it rains. Landscaper starts Tuesday. I will post before and after pics. I am getting excited!
Sunday, November 4, 2007
Confirmation I am not crazy
Isn't it nice to have that confirmed every once in a while? I can't speak for any other moments but at least with red wines and certain foods, I know I am not crazy.
It began when I began drinking in the late 60's (the days when beer and wine were legal at age 19). I loved the taste of red wine but after drinking just one glass I would be sick for days after with this incredible horrible headache and nausea. I won't speak of the day I was dumped by a guy then drank a whole bottle of Chianti myself and on the way back to my dorm, I stopped and spoke to 'god' in the middle of the quad. Yep not one of my better days although I still get teased for it. Now I don't remember an ounce of this but it has been relayed to me by verifiable honest sources. Seems the frat I was a little sister with decided to play a joke on me. They had never seen me drink before as I was dubbed the studious serious one who worked nights and never partied (yep believe it or not that was me - a nerdy geek). So they climbed a tree that was on the way to my dorm and waited for me. When I walked under said tree, they spoke to me and I was led to believe they were 'god'. It is told that I confessed all my sins that night and the next morning, my roommate found me still under said tree still confessing my sins. I tend to believe them because they had info I had never ever told anyone before.
So, now there is a reason I am weird and can't drink red wine, chocolate, cheese, olives, nuts and cured meats. I have an 'amine sensitivity'. Here is the story for all to read:
If the link doesn't show up just go to yahoo news and to the health section. I have no idea why blogger doesn't allow links when they have a link thingie.
Nice to have confirmation!
It began when I began drinking in the late 60's (the days when beer and wine were legal at age 19). I loved the taste of red wine but after drinking just one glass I would be sick for days after with this incredible horrible headache and nausea. I won't speak of the day I was dumped by a guy then drank a whole bottle of Chianti myself and on the way back to my dorm, I stopped and spoke to 'god' in the middle of the quad. Yep not one of my better days although I still get teased for it. Now I don't remember an ounce of this but it has been relayed to me by verifiable honest sources. Seems the frat I was a little sister with decided to play a joke on me. They had never seen me drink before as I was dubbed the studious serious one who worked nights and never partied (yep believe it or not that was me - a nerdy geek). So they climbed a tree that was on the way to my dorm and waited for me. When I walked under said tree, they spoke to me and I was led to believe they were 'god'. It is told that I confessed all my sins that night and the next morning, my roommate found me still under said tree still confessing my sins. I tend to believe them because they had info I had never ever told anyone before.
So, now there is a reason I am weird and can't drink red wine, chocolate, cheese, olives, nuts and cured meats. I have an 'amine sensitivity'. Here is the story for all to read:
If the link doesn't show up just go to yahoo news and to the health section. I have no idea why blogger doesn't allow links when they have a link thingie.
Nice to have confirmation!
Friday, November 2, 2007
MRSA
At the advice of a friend, I installed a site meter to check on who was coming to my blog and what they were interested in. Want to know what interested people the most? If you don't want to know, don't read any further :)
My blog is tracking an average of 27 hits a day from just about every state in the US plus places like Brisbane, Queenland and Swindon in the United Kingdom and Parow, Western Cape in South Africa and Bermuda and a whole bunch of places I had to look up to figure out where they are. Talk about teaching an old lady about Geography!
I digress....the topic everyone is interested in? A month or so ago I posted a series on the 10 dirtiest places. Believe it or not, that is the topic everyone is interested in! It actually generated the fewest comments yet it is 90% of the draw to my blog.
So since everyone is interested in dirt and the dirtiest places, I will add this one to the bunch and actually the one that scares me the most especially with my upcoming surgery. It is everywhere. The bug is MRSA.
You have to be living under a rock or be in a consistent drug induced state to not be aware of MRSA. It's the latest news piece. MRSA is an acronymn for a Methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus infection which is caused by Staphylococcus aureus bacteria — often called "staph." It can be fatal. It has only been around a couple of decades but it has grown to amazing proportions. It was one of the first germs to outwit all but the most powerful drugs. Vancomycin is one of the few antibiotics still effective against hospital strains of MRSA infection, although the drug is no longer effective in every case.
Do you think you have to go to a hospital to get it or even be sick to get it? Do you think you need to come into contact to get it? Nope.....wrong. Staph bacteria is found on the skin or in the nose of about one-third of the population. If you have staph on your skin or in your nose but aren't sick, you are said to be "colonized" but not infected with MRSA. Healthy people can be colonized with MRSA and have no ill effects, however, they can pass the germ to others.
Why did a simple staph infection turn into a super bug?
1. The sheer numbers of over prescribing of antibiotics by physicians and by patients who insist on being given an antibiotic for a virus. We are a "we are sick and we want it gone now society".
2. The number of antibiotics in food and water. Here in the good ole' United States, antibiotics can be found in beef cattle, pigs and chickens. The same antibiotics then find their way into municipal water systems when the runoff from feedlots contaminates streams and groundwater.
3. Germ mutation. Even when antibiotics are used appropriately, they contribute to the rise of drug-resistant bacteria because they don't destroy every germ they target. Bacteria live on an evolutionary fast track, so germs that survive treatment with one antibiotic soon learn to resist others. And because bacteria mutate much more quickly than new drugs can be produced, some germs end up resistant to just about everything. That's why only a handful of drugs are now effective against most forms of staph. And the side effects of those drugs are huge! I have a friend who acquired MRSA and was off work for an entire year. This is not a bug to mess with!
Risk factors:
1. A current or recent hospitalization. A 2007 report from the Association for Professionals in Infection Control and Epidemiology estimates that 1.2 million hospital patients are infected with MRSA each year in the United States. They also estimate another 423,000 are colonized with it.
2. Living in a long-term care facility. MRSA is far more prevalent in these facilities than it is in hospitals. Carriers of MRSA have the ability to spread it, even if they're not sick themselves. I read not too long ago that 50% of nursing home patients have active MRSA infections and the other 50% are carriers because they have been exposed to it.
3. Invasive devices. People who are on dialysis, are catheterized, or have feeding tubes or other invasive devices are at higher risk.
4. Recent antibiotic use, especially antibiotics like cipro, ofloxzcin, levaquin, or a cephalosporin.
5. Our children who do not have fully developed immune systems or our aged whose immune systems are no longer as healthy as they used to be.
6. Participation in contact sports. The bacteria is spread easily through cuts and abrasions and skin-to-skin contact.
7. Sharing towels or athletic equipment. MRSA has spread among athletes sharing razors, towels, uniforms or equipment. And here all you thought you had to worry about was athletes foot and warts :)
8. Anyone with a weakened immune system.
9. Anyone living in crowded or unsanitary conditions: military training camps and prisons.
10. Association with health care workers. Yep be afraid of me!
When do you get medical help? Keep an eye on pimples, insect bites, cuts and scrapes. If they become infected, see your doctor. INSIST on having any skin infection swabbed and tested for MRSA before starting any antibiotics. Drugs that treat ordinary staph aren't effective against MRSA, and their use could lead to serious illness and more resistant bacteria.
Prevention:
1. Wash your hands frequently and I don't mean just get them wet. Scrub your hands briskly for at least 15 seconds, then dry them with a disposable towel and use another towel to turn off the faucet. Carry a small bottle of hand sanitizer containing at least 62 percent alcohol for times when you don't have access to soap and water.
2. Properly disinfect surfaces...good old Lysol spray works..along with bleach... alcohol (not the drinking kind).
3. Wear a mask and gown and gloves if you encounter someone with MRSA.
4. Insist that all medical staff (even doctors) wash their hands before touching you — each and every time. It isn't good enough to be wearing gloves...where did those gloves come from and who did they touch last?
5. If you are hospitalized, ask to be bathed with disposable cloths treated with a disinfectant rather than with soap and water. (This is also why I refuse to remain in the hospital after my surgery. Come hell or high water I will be going home that day!
6. Make sure that intravenous tubes and catheters are inserted and removed under sterile conditions and that they have sterilized your skin before inserting that IV.
7. Keep personal items personal. Avoid sharing items such as towels, sheets, razors, clothing and athletic equipment. MRSA spreads on contaminated objects as well as through direct contact. Yep it lives on objects for up to 8 hours.
8. Keep a wound covered. Keep cuts and abrasions clean and covered with sterile, dry bandages until they heal. The pus from infected sores often contains MRSA, and keeping wounds covered will help keep the bacteria from spreading.
9. Sanitize your linens. If you have a cut or sore, wash towels and bed linens in hot water with added bleach and dry them in a hot dryer.
10. Wash gym and athletic clothes after each wearing (put a cap of lysol in your wash).
11. Get tested. If you have a skin infection that requires treatment, you should be tested for MRSA. Many doctors prescribe drugs that aren't effective against antibiotic-resistant staph, which delays treatment and creates more resistant germs. For that matter, if you are a health care worker, get tested monthly with nasal swabs. If you visit someone in a nursing home or hospital, get tested.
So who is running to wash their hands?
My blog is tracking an average of 27 hits a day from just about every state in the US plus places like Brisbane, Queenland and Swindon in the United Kingdom and Parow, Western Cape in South Africa and Bermuda and a whole bunch of places I had to look up to figure out where they are. Talk about teaching an old lady about Geography!
I digress....the topic everyone is interested in? A month or so ago I posted a series on the 10 dirtiest places. Believe it or not, that is the topic everyone is interested in! It actually generated the fewest comments yet it is 90% of the draw to my blog.
So since everyone is interested in dirt and the dirtiest places, I will add this one to the bunch and actually the one that scares me the most especially with my upcoming surgery. It is everywhere. The bug is MRSA.
You have to be living under a rock or be in a consistent drug induced state to not be aware of MRSA. It's the latest news piece. MRSA is an acronymn for a Methicillin-resistant Staphylococcus aureus infection which is caused by Staphylococcus aureus bacteria — often called "staph." It can be fatal. It has only been around a couple of decades but it has grown to amazing proportions. It was one of the first germs to outwit all but the most powerful drugs. Vancomycin is one of the few antibiotics still effective against hospital strains of MRSA infection, although the drug is no longer effective in every case.
Do you think you have to go to a hospital to get it or even be sick to get it? Do you think you need to come into contact to get it? Nope.....wrong. Staph bacteria is found on the skin or in the nose of about one-third of the population. If you have staph on your skin or in your nose but aren't sick, you are said to be "colonized" but not infected with MRSA. Healthy people can be colonized with MRSA and have no ill effects, however, they can pass the germ to others.
Why did a simple staph infection turn into a super bug?
1. The sheer numbers of over prescribing of antibiotics by physicians and by patients who insist on being given an antibiotic for a virus. We are a "we are sick and we want it gone now society".
2. The number of antibiotics in food and water. Here in the good ole' United States, antibiotics can be found in beef cattle, pigs and chickens. The same antibiotics then find their way into municipal water systems when the runoff from feedlots contaminates streams and groundwater.
3. Germ mutation. Even when antibiotics are used appropriately, they contribute to the rise of drug-resistant bacteria because they don't destroy every germ they target. Bacteria live on an evolutionary fast track, so germs that survive treatment with one antibiotic soon learn to resist others. And because bacteria mutate much more quickly than new drugs can be produced, some germs end up resistant to just about everything. That's why only a handful of drugs are now effective against most forms of staph. And the side effects of those drugs are huge! I have a friend who acquired MRSA and was off work for an entire year. This is not a bug to mess with!
Risk factors:
1. A current or recent hospitalization. A 2007 report from the Association for Professionals in Infection Control and Epidemiology estimates that 1.2 million hospital patients are infected with MRSA each year in the United States. They also estimate another 423,000 are colonized with it.
2. Living in a long-term care facility. MRSA is far more prevalent in these facilities than it is in hospitals. Carriers of MRSA have the ability to spread it, even if they're not sick themselves. I read not too long ago that 50% of nursing home patients have active MRSA infections and the other 50% are carriers because they have been exposed to it.
3. Invasive devices. People who are on dialysis, are catheterized, or have feeding tubes or other invasive devices are at higher risk.
4. Recent antibiotic use, especially antibiotics like cipro, ofloxzcin, levaquin, or a cephalosporin.
5. Our children who do not have fully developed immune systems or our aged whose immune systems are no longer as healthy as they used to be.
6. Participation in contact sports. The bacteria is spread easily through cuts and abrasions and skin-to-skin contact.
7. Sharing towels or athletic equipment. MRSA has spread among athletes sharing razors, towels, uniforms or equipment. And here all you thought you had to worry about was athletes foot and warts :)
8. Anyone with a weakened immune system.
9. Anyone living in crowded or unsanitary conditions: military training camps and prisons.
10. Association with health care workers. Yep be afraid of me!
When do you get medical help? Keep an eye on pimples, insect bites, cuts and scrapes. If they become infected, see your doctor. INSIST on having any skin infection swabbed and tested for MRSA before starting any antibiotics. Drugs that treat ordinary staph aren't effective against MRSA, and their use could lead to serious illness and more resistant bacteria.
Prevention:
1. Wash your hands frequently and I don't mean just get them wet. Scrub your hands briskly for at least 15 seconds, then dry them with a disposable towel and use another towel to turn off the faucet. Carry a small bottle of hand sanitizer containing at least 62 percent alcohol for times when you don't have access to soap and water.
2. Properly disinfect surfaces...good old Lysol spray works..along with bleach... alcohol (not the drinking kind).
3. Wear a mask and gown and gloves if you encounter someone with MRSA.
4. Insist that all medical staff (even doctors) wash their hands before touching you — each and every time. It isn't good enough to be wearing gloves...where did those gloves come from and who did they touch last?
5. If you are hospitalized, ask to be bathed with disposable cloths treated with a disinfectant rather than with soap and water. (This is also why I refuse to remain in the hospital after my surgery. Come hell or high water I will be going home that day!
6. Make sure that intravenous tubes and catheters are inserted and removed under sterile conditions and that they have sterilized your skin before inserting that IV.
7. Keep personal items personal. Avoid sharing items such as towels, sheets, razors, clothing and athletic equipment. MRSA spreads on contaminated objects as well as through direct contact. Yep it lives on objects for up to 8 hours.
8. Keep a wound covered. Keep cuts and abrasions clean and covered with sterile, dry bandages until they heal. The pus from infected sores often contains MRSA, and keeping wounds covered will help keep the bacteria from spreading.
9. Sanitize your linens. If you have a cut or sore, wash towels and bed linens in hot water with added bleach and dry them in a hot dryer.
10. Wash gym and athletic clothes after each wearing (put a cap of lysol in your wash).
11. Get tested. If you have a skin infection that requires treatment, you should be tested for MRSA. Many doctors prescribe drugs that aren't effective against antibiotic-resistant staph, which delays treatment and creates more resistant germs. For that matter, if you are a health care worker, get tested monthly with nasal swabs. If you visit someone in a nursing home or hospital, get tested.
So who is running to wash their hands?
Thursday, November 1, 2007
Halloween Pics
Just had to show you my granddoggies' Halloween pictures. We dressed up at the office for the patients and they had a riot with our costumes. I had forgotten my camera so don't have any pics of us yet until the one girl forwards them to me. If they are good, I promise to post them. Hubs was King, one office girl was a cat, another girl was a police officer whose name was Ivanna Bribe, and I was a princess. I didn't bother buying candy this year for trick or treaters because we were working and I knew we wouldn't be home before the mandated hours ended. Around 9PM our doorbell rang and it was my granddoggies trick or treating. And yes, of course they got treats....after all this is grandma's house!
This is Bella as a ladybug.
This is Brittany as a pumpkin.
This is Bella as a ladybug.
This is Brittany as a pumpkin.
Sunday, October 28, 2007
Four things - sent via email replied here
A) Four jobs I have had in my life before age 25:
1. Ironed clothes for others (actually mother took them in but made us kids help iron them) which is why I got job #2 at age 14.
2. Nurse's aid in a nursing home
3. RN in an ER, ICU, and CCU.
4. Waitress to make extra money for school.
B) Four movies I would watch over and over:
1. Pretty Woman
2. When Harry met Sally
3. Dr Zhivago
4. Casablanca
C) Four places I have lived:
1. TX
2. OK
3. IL
4. different place in OK
D) FOUR TV SHOWS I WATCH
1. ER
2. Boston Legal
3. Life in the ER
4. NCIS
E) Four places I have been:
1. Grand Canyon
2. Cayman Islands
3. Cancun
4. Jamaica
F) People who e-mail me (regularly):
1. C
2. E
3. A
4. D
G) Four of my favorite foods:
1. Anything someone else cooks.
2. Seafood
3. white cheddar au gratins
4. german chocolate cake
H) Four places I would rather be right now:
1. In bed
2. On a massage table
3. On my way to the spa
4. Italy
I) Friends I think will respond:
1. Don't care.
2. Don't know.
3. A ghost
4. The people who visit my blog that I don't know.
J) Things I am looking forward to this year:
1. Getting my surgery done
2. Being out of pain
3. Walking again without a cast or crutches or aid device
4. Driving myself anywhere. Just being able to drive.
1. Ironed clothes for others (actually mother took them in but made us kids help iron them) which is why I got job #2 at age 14.
2. Nurse's aid in a nursing home
3. RN in an ER, ICU, and CCU.
4. Waitress to make extra money for school.
B) Four movies I would watch over and over:
1. Pretty Woman
2. When Harry met Sally
3. Dr Zhivago
4. Casablanca
C) Four places I have lived:
1. TX
2. OK
3. IL
4. different place in OK
D) FOUR TV SHOWS I WATCH
1. ER
2. Boston Legal
3. Life in the ER
4. NCIS
E) Four places I have been:
1. Grand Canyon
2. Cayman Islands
3. Cancun
4. Jamaica
F) People who e-mail me (regularly):
1. C
2. E
3. A
4. D
G) Four of my favorite foods:
1. Anything someone else cooks.
2. Seafood
3. white cheddar au gratins
4. german chocolate cake
H) Four places I would rather be right now:
1. In bed
2. On a massage table
3. On my way to the spa
4. Italy
I) Friends I think will respond:
1. Don't care.
2. Don't know.
3. A ghost
4. The people who visit my blog that I don't know.
J) Things I am looking forward to this year:
1. Getting my surgery done
2. Being out of pain
3. Walking again without a cast or crutches or aid device
4. Driving myself anywhere. Just being able to drive.
Saturday, October 27, 2007
Welcome to my 1st great nephew! Ankle Update
I am a new great aunt again. Niece and L are doing good. He was born yesterday and weighs in at a whopping 8 pounds 2 ounces and is 19.5 inches long.
In other news....I am in an air cast and ace bandages until surgery. I will be having an ankle arthroscopy to clean up the joint which is full of scar tissue and the syndesmotic surgery with the tight rope procedure to keep my tibia and fibula together as they should be (only half the ligaments have healed). Then the surgeon will open up my ankle on the inside of the foot and repair the post tibial tendon, then open up my ankle on the outside of the foot and probably use the cadaver ligament and make me an new ATF ligament. Hopefully I will be able to stand and walk again after it is all done. We are leaving the damaged and irritated seral nerve alone right now and see if it calms down in the next year. It is the one that is causing the hot poker type pain I have that travels to the knee. I find out when surgery will be by Tuesday.
Off now to go get ready for the fancy smancy dinner dance. I will post pics tomorrow.
In other news....I am in an air cast and ace bandages until surgery. I will be having an ankle arthroscopy to clean up the joint which is full of scar tissue and the syndesmotic surgery with the tight rope procedure to keep my tibia and fibula together as they should be (only half the ligaments have healed). Then the surgeon will open up my ankle on the inside of the foot and repair the post tibial tendon, then open up my ankle on the outside of the foot and probably use the cadaver ligament and make me an new ATF ligament. Hopefully I will be able to stand and walk again after it is all done. We are leaving the damaged and irritated seral nerve alone right now and see if it calms down in the next year. It is the one that is causing the hot poker type pain I have that travels to the knee. I find out when surgery will be by Tuesday.
Off now to go get ready for the fancy smancy dinner dance. I will post pics tomorrow.
Ankle Update
I am in an air cast and ace bandages until surgery. I will be having an ankle arthroscopy to clean up the joint which is full of scar tissue and the syndesmotic surgery with the tight rope procedure to keep my tibia and fibula together as they should be (only half the ligaments have healed). Then the surgeon will open up my ankle on the inside of the foot and repair the post tibial tendon, then open up my ankle on the outside of the foot and probably use the cadaver ligament and make me an new ATF ligament. Hopefully I will be able to stand and walk again after it is all done. We are leaving the damaged and irritated seral nerve alone right now and see if it calms down in the next year. It is the one that is causing the hot poker type pain I have that travels to the knee. I find out when surgery will be by Tuesday.
Off now to go get ready for the fancy smancy dinner dance. I will post pics tomorrow.
Off now to go get ready for the fancy smancy dinner dance. I will post pics tomorrow.
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Mish Mosh
This post is a wee bit of this and a wee bit of that....aka mish mosh.
Wedding update: we are in the process of trimming the 'A' guest list from the current count of 365 to a number where only 200 will show up. I suggested my name was the first to go and got the eyeroll. My current instructions are to be out of the cast and walking by May for the wedding. She is not allowing either my scooter or wheelchair to be a part of the ceremony.
Wedding prep: Yanno those things that we have planned to do on the house, etc:
Roof is picked out finally after multiple viewings and discussions. We decided on GAF's Timberline 40 Pewter Gray Blend Shadow Accent. Believe me, it was a whole lot of discussion. Why we picked a 40 year roof is beyond me as I can't imagine caring at the ripe age of 93 about putting a new roof on the house. New skylight will be in within 2 weeks so roof will go on then.
Landscaper came out today and gave us the new plan. We are removing 2 trees that were supposed to stay small yet became monsters, replanting some bushes and flowers and stuff I have no idea what their names are but managed to look like I knew what he was saying and cared. All I care about is the price and there isn't a lily being planted and it is maintenance free (aka I don't have to do it) and looks good. Must be a man thang because hubs came home from golf and the landscaper looked relieved that he didn't have to talk to me anymore. He and hubs decided to put in a stone decorative wall on both sides of the house and lots of other things that added a couple thousand to the bill but still within what I was expecting and have the money for so for convenience sake I gave in on that (but it was to get my way for the kitchen which I will remind him of when I need to).
Inside house: 1. The basement that we had the water damage in is cleaned out and I have had 2 bids so far on the refinishing. Need to pick them out soon but work won't start until January which is considered off season and thus cheaper.
2. I picked out the hardwood flooring I want in the bedrooms which is still up for discussion as hubs wants carpeting (warmer for his piggies...to which I responded put on socks and wear slippers).
3. We are still discussing the new mattress we are getting for our bedroom. Hubs wants to try a sleep number bed thang. I said his side would be very soft and mine would be very hard and we won't ever be able to meet in the middle (which might be ok). Sealy has my vote. It hasn't failed me for 30 years. Our old mattress is going into spare room aka daughter's old room where sugar glider currently resides.
4. Kitchen.....very big sore subject (which I hope to win on since I let hubs get his decorative stone thang outside). I currently have a U shaped kitchen with a large island with cabinets above and below and a breakfast room right next to it. I would love to take out the island and table and put in a huge island in the center of the 2 rooms that has seating with it. It would open up the kitchen area and blend right on through to the family room. We put french doors in the breakfast room a few years ago and to me, this huge island would just open up the whole area. I think we should do it while we are changing countertops anyway. I am currently being vetoed. We shall see. The other topic is the countertops. I picked out my new cooktop already but the discussion is on type and style and color of the countertops. I want a grey granite with black specks with back splashes to the bottom of the cabinets and stainless sinks. He wants something else and says granite backsplashes are ugly. House remodeling reminds me of building this house 22 years ago. I swore I would never do it again.
5. I picked out the paint colors for the hallways (upstairs and downstairs and stairs) and am going with a metallic faux finish in shades of gray and rose with silver as the metallic finish. It gives the walls definition and shine without being gaudy. Just going to have to get the 2 layers of wallpaper off first.
Foot/Ankle: I promised a few people a pic of my neon pink cast which I have been sporting for 2 weeks now. Last Friday I had another MRI which confirmed that while some things have healed, the others are not going to. So surgery is being scheduled. I find out when and what on Friday. I have a formal dinner dance to attend Saturday. I am going to ask for a black cast which would be appropiate for Halloween and would blend in with what I think I am wearing on Saturday. I still haven't made up my mind on that dilemma yet.
Other than that, celebrating that son drove to Phoenix and back in one piece and without a ticket, etc. Now I can breathe again instead of worrying about him on the road. He and a friend drove it straight through. Said it was easier than the drive to the Keys. He loves it in Phoenix. His allergies didn't act up at all until he got home. He got used to the 80+ degree weather in Phoenix and came home to the Chicago 40's and 50's. He dug out all his winter clothes and is going around saying he's freezing....so the battle of the thermostat is starting. Years ago I disconnected the thermostat and put another in (I call it the dummy one) so he can change it all he wants....it won't change off the 64 degree setting I have it on. Maybe one year he will catch on it is a dummy thermostat. But then again........
Wedding update: we are in the process of trimming the 'A' guest list from the current count of 365 to a number where only 200 will show up. I suggested my name was the first to go and got the eyeroll. My current instructions are to be out of the cast and walking by May for the wedding. She is not allowing either my scooter or wheelchair to be a part of the ceremony.
Wedding prep: Yanno those things that we have planned to do on the house, etc:
Roof is picked out finally after multiple viewings and discussions. We decided on GAF's Timberline 40 Pewter Gray Blend Shadow Accent. Believe me, it was a whole lot of discussion. Why we picked a 40 year roof is beyond me as I can't imagine caring at the ripe age of 93 about putting a new roof on the house. New skylight will be in within 2 weeks so roof will go on then.
Landscaper came out today and gave us the new plan. We are removing 2 trees that were supposed to stay small yet became monsters, replanting some bushes and flowers and stuff I have no idea what their names are but managed to look like I knew what he was saying and cared. All I care about is the price and there isn't a lily being planted and it is maintenance free (aka I don't have to do it) and looks good. Must be a man thang because hubs came home from golf and the landscaper looked relieved that he didn't have to talk to me anymore. He and hubs decided to put in a stone decorative wall on both sides of the house and lots of other things that added a couple thousand to the bill but still within what I was expecting and have the money for so for convenience sake I gave in on that (but it was to get my way for the kitchen which I will remind him of when I need to).
Inside house: 1. The basement that we had the water damage in is cleaned out and I have had 2 bids so far on the refinishing. Need to pick them out soon but work won't start until January which is considered off season and thus cheaper.
2. I picked out the hardwood flooring I want in the bedrooms which is still up for discussion as hubs wants carpeting (warmer for his piggies...to which I responded put on socks and wear slippers).
3. We are still discussing the new mattress we are getting for our bedroom. Hubs wants to try a sleep number bed thang. I said his side would be very soft and mine would be very hard and we won't ever be able to meet in the middle (which might be ok). Sealy has my vote. It hasn't failed me for 30 years. Our old mattress is going into spare room aka daughter's old room where sugar glider currently resides.
4. Kitchen.....very big sore subject (which I hope to win on since I let hubs get his decorative stone thang outside). I currently have a U shaped kitchen with a large island with cabinets above and below and a breakfast room right next to it. I would love to take out the island and table and put in a huge island in the center of the 2 rooms that has seating with it. It would open up the kitchen area and blend right on through to the family room. We put french doors in the breakfast room a few years ago and to me, this huge island would just open up the whole area. I think we should do it while we are changing countertops anyway. I am currently being vetoed. We shall see. The other topic is the countertops. I picked out my new cooktop already but the discussion is on type and style and color of the countertops. I want a grey granite with black specks with back splashes to the bottom of the cabinets and stainless sinks. He wants something else and says granite backsplashes are ugly. House remodeling reminds me of building this house 22 years ago. I swore I would never do it again.
5. I picked out the paint colors for the hallways (upstairs and downstairs and stairs) and am going with a metallic faux finish in shades of gray and rose with silver as the metallic finish. It gives the walls definition and shine without being gaudy. Just going to have to get the 2 layers of wallpaper off first.
Foot/Ankle: I promised a few people a pic of my neon pink cast which I have been sporting for 2 weeks now. Last Friday I had another MRI which confirmed that while some things have healed, the others are not going to. So surgery is being scheduled. I find out when and what on Friday. I have a formal dinner dance to attend Saturday. I am going to ask for a black cast which would be appropiate for Halloween and would blend in with what I think I am wearing on Saturday. I still haven't made up my mind on that dilemma yet.
Other than that, celebrating that son drove to Phoenix and back in one piece and without a ticket, etc. Now I can breathe again instead of worrying about him on the road. He and a friend drove it straight through. Said it was easier than the drive to the Keys. He loves it in Phoenix. His allergies didn't act up at all until he got home. He got used to the 80+ degree weather in Phoenix and came home to the Chicago 40's and 50's. He dug out all his winter clothes and is going around saying he's freezing....so the battle of the thermostat is starting. Years ago I disconnected the thermostat and put another in (I call it the dummy one) so he can change it all he wants....it won't change off the 64 degree setting I have it on. Maybe one year he will catch on it is a dummy thermostat. But then again........
Saturday, October 20, 2007
Dilemma
I have one. According to the dictionary a dilemma is a problem offering 2 solutions or possibilities, of which neither is acceptable.
Next Saturday I have a black tie dinner dance aka fancy smancy doctor's dinner dance to attend. It is to be held at the Museum of Science and Industry. Normally every year they are held at a local hotel and we make a weekend of it. We stay overnight and get couple massages, etc. This year they decided to have it at the Museum. Normally I wouldn't mind. This year I do. I have my ankle to worry about.
I had my 2nd MRI yesterday but don't get the official results until next Friday (the day before said dance). Of course hubs and I both read MRI's and know what it says. I know that the doc will be taking off the cast next week but I also know he will be putting another on until surgery.
So what to wear when one is sporting a cast...plus how to attend. If I use the scooter, I have to wear pants and personally I don't think said scooter meets the definition of fancy smancy attire..plus I would have to try to go shopping for said pair of pants since I have dropped 2 sizes and not one of my dressy pants fit over my cast. If I go via wheelchair, then I am dependant on someone pushing me....I don't have to get something to wear as I will wear something out of my closet BUT I will have to rent a wheelchair for the weekend and personally I hate being in the wheelchair.
So neither option is sitting well with me. But then again I could wear my bright purple dress with my thigh high on one leg and get the doc to put on a neon green cast on the other and go in the scooter just to snub my nose at this type of society stuff that is just not me.
So it's a week before and I am still stewing on what to do and what to wear and to use the wheelchair or the scooter. And as you can see I am in a funk. I am tired of being in a cast (it's been almost 10 weeks). I am tired of being in pain (especially the past week or so with the changing Chicago weather). I am tired of not getting better or being able to see an end to this. **insert major drama rant**
Next Saturday I have a black tie dinner dance aka fancy smancy doctor's dinner dance to attend. It is to be held at the Museum of Science and Industry. Normally every year they are held at a local hotel and we make a weekend of it. We stay overnight and get couple massages, etc. This year they decided to have it at the Museum. Normally I wouldn't mind. This year I do. I have my ankle to worry about.
I had my 2nd MRI yesterday but don't get the official results until next Friday (the day before said dance). Of course hubs and I both read MRI's and know what it says. I know that the doc will be taking off the cast next week but I also know he will be putting another on until surgery.
So what to wear when one is sporting a cast...plus how to attend. If I use the scooter, I have to wear pants and personally I don't think said scooter meets the definition of fancy smancy attire..plus I would have to try to go shopping for said pair of pants since I have dropped 2 sizes and not one of my dressy pants fit over my cast. If I go via wheelchair, then I am dependant on someone pushing me....I don't have to get something to wear as I will wear something out of my closet BUT I will have to rent a wheelchair for the weekend and personally I hate being in the wheelchair.
So neither option is sitting well with me. But then again I could wear my bright purple dress with my thigh high on one leg and get the doc to put on a neon green cast on the other and go in the scooter just to snub my nose at this type of society stuff that is just not me.
So it's a week before and I am still stewing on what to do and what to wear and to use the wheelchair or the scooter. And as you can see I am in a funk. I am tired of being in a cast (it's been almost 10 weeks). I am tired of being in pain (especially the past week or so with the changing Chicago weather). I am tired of not getting better or being able to see an end to this. **insert major drama rant**
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
The things we learn from TV: cliterature
I rarely watch TV. I just don't have the time. I have a few shows I TiVo and once in a while I actually watch what I have taped. My favorites: ER, Gray's Anatomy, Criminal Minds, Numbers, Men in Trees, and Boston Legal. I think I have finally caught up to the end of last season's shows and am now starting on this season that I have taped so far.
Yesterday I happened to have the TV on while I was getting ready for work. I wasn't really listening to it....I call it background noise. That is until I heard the word: cliterature. New word for me. Interesting discussion and on Oprah! Well, I had missed a lot of it so here in the Chicago area, Oprah is on twice a day...9AM and 11PM so I set up TiVo to record the 11PM show.
I just got through watching it. The show was on menopause of which I am on intimate terms with that word. I have been living with that word since my hysterectomy 9 years ago for uterine cancer. I am in what is called a surgical menopause which basically means I went into menopause abruptly through surgery. Since my cancer was hormone related, I was not allowed to use any hormone therapy for over 5 years. How my husband lived with me I have no idea...imagine PMS personified! I had no sexual feelings....someone could wag their wand in front of me and I would look then look away and just go about doing what I was doing...it was like a 'so what'. Not good for a relationship. So I did some research on hormone therapy and learned about natural hormones which I am now taking although not in the same amount my body would have been normally producing. I take the edge off the hot flashes and over time I have learned how to have a sex life again.
Ok back to Oprah and cliterature. There was a doctor on the show that explained that romance novels are cliterature. They are designed to stimulate the senses and she strongly encourages women to read them to become aroused. She called them cliterature. I was like...huh? I will stand right up right now and admit, I am an reader and yes, I even read romance novels aka to her cliterature. I read a variety of things...contemporaries, medical thrillers, action romance, and yes I like erotica. I don't need a happy ever after like old Harlequins but I do like a well written book and definitely not cheesey or corney. I am lucky enough to have a few friends who are all established authors whose writing I love.
But to call them cliterature? I think that is going way too far. I can only imagine what they call medical thrillers like The Hot Zone by Richard Preston. I just finished reading A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini (fantastic book I highly recommend) and I wonder what it would be called.
Back to that word: cliterature. So I got to thinking....interesting word....cliterature. I wanted to see the real definition rather than her definition. Imagine my surprise! Urban Dictionary defines it as this: An amalgamation of clit and literature. Literature dealing with the clitoris, that is, pornography.........wait....this doctor termed romance novels pornography? Wow....how far we have come at times and how archaic we still are.
So I read cliterature. Who knew?
Yesterday I happened to have the TV on while I was getting ready for work. I wasn't really listening to it....I call it background noise. That is until I heard the word: cliterature. New word for me. Interesting discussion and on Oprah! Well, I had missed a lot of it so here in the Chicago area, Oprah is on twice a day...9AM and 11PM so I set up TiVo to record the 11PM show.
I just got through watching it. The show was on menopause of which I am on intimate terms with that word. I have been living with that word since my hysterectomy 9 years ago for uterine cancer. I am in what is called a surgical menopause which basically means I went into menopause abruptly through surgery. Since my cancer was hormone related, I was not allowed to use any hormone therapy for over 5 years. How my husband lived with me I have no idea...imagine PMS personified! I had no sexual feelings....someone could wag their wand in front of me and I would look then look away and just go about doing what I was doing...it was like a 'so what'. Not good for a relationship. So I did some research on hormone therapy and learned about natural hormones which I am now taking although not in the same amount my body would have been normally producing. I take the edge off the hot flashes and over time I have learned how to have a sex life again.
Ok back to Oprah and cliterature. There was a doctor on the show that explained that romance novels are cliterature. They are designed to stimulate the senses and she strongly encourages women to read them to become aroused. She called them cliterature. I was like...huh? I will stand right up right now and admit, I am an reader and yes, I even read romance novels aka to her cliterature. I read a variety of things...contemporaries, medical thrillers, action romance, and yes I like erotica. I don't need a happy ever after like old Harlequins but I do like a well written book and definitely not cheesey or corney. I am lucky enough to have a few friends who are all established authors whose writing I love.
But to call them cliterature? I think that is going way too far. I can only imagine what they call medical thrillers like The Hot Zone by Richard Preston. I just finished reading A Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseini (fantastic book I highly recommend) and I wonder what it would be called.
Back to that word: cliterature. So I got to thinking....interesting word....cliterature. I wanted to see the real definition rather than her definition. Imagine my surprise! Urban Dictionary defines it as this: An amalgamation of clit and literature. Literature dealing with the clitoris, that is, pornography.........wait....this doctor termed romance novels pornography? Wow....how far we have come at times and how archaic we still are.
So I read cliterature. Who knew?
Thursday, October 11, 2007
Taste Testing
Last night after work hubs and I met daughter, her fiancee, and his mother and father for a taste testing for the reception. OMG the culinary delights.
We started with a choice of either soup (minestrone, Orecchiette con Fagioli or the chef's soup of the day which was Cream of Broccoli) or salad. We decided on offering either a choice of Minestrone or salad.
Next we had to pick the pasta. We had bowtie pasta with a vodka cream sauce and then homemade cheese tortellini in a pomodoro and basil sauce. We all agreed on the vodka cream sauce but couldn't decide on bowtie pasta or rigatoni or the cheese tortellini.
The next course was the main course. We knew we were having filet and chicken but we had yet to pick out which chicken so they brought out 2 12 ounce Filet Mignons, Chicken Vesuvio, Chicken Marsala, and Chicken Francese so we could have both a slice of the filet on our plate with each of the chickens to get the flavor of how both would be presented. We loved all of them and the vote was split 3 ways.
We also had to pick out our potatoe from these: Twice Baked Potato, Oven Roasted Potato, Vesuvio Potatoes, Garlic Mashed Potatoes, Crocka D'Potato, and Italian Potatoes. We are between the twice baked, the vesuvio if we have the chicken vesuvio, or the Crocka D'Potato.
Oh and one can't forget the vegetable choices: Steamed Broccoli, Asparagus, Green Beans Almandine, Sauteed Spinach, and a Garden Fresh Medley of Broccoli, Cauliflower and Carrots. I think we are going with the green beans almandine as they gave the best presentation on a plate.
The owner of the reception place came over to see us (he knows us) and said we couldn't leave without dessert so he brought out Lemoncello Gelato, Tiramisu, and Cannoli's. I had never had lemoncello gelato before so I had that.....melted in the mouth.........truly orgasmic!
The whole dinner for 6 was a part of the reception program so all we had to pay for was the 2 bottles of wine we drank (well, I had water).
OMG I was so full and we still can't decide. We might just have to go back to pick one pasta and one chicken and one potato and one vegetable and do some sampling all over again. Hard decisions here.......
We started with a choice of either soup (minestrone, Orecchiette con Fagioli or the chef's soup of the day which was Cream of Broccoli) or salad. We decided on offering either a choice of Minestrone or salad.
Next we had to pick the pasta. We had bowtie pasta with a vodka cream sauce and then homemade cheese tortellini in a pomodoro and basil sauce. We all agreed on the vodka cream sauce but couldn't decide on bowtie pasta or rigatoni or the cheese tortellini.
The next course was the main course. We knew we were having filet and chicken but we had yet to pick out which chicken so they brought out 2 12 ounce Filet Mignons, Chicken Vesuvio, Chicken Marsala, and Chicken Francese so we could have both a slice of the filet on our plate with each of the chickens to get the flavor of how both would be presented. We loved all of them and the vote was split 3 ways.
We also had to pick out our potatoe from these: Twice Baked Potato, Oven Roasted Potato, Vesuvio Potatoes, Garlic Mashed Potatoes, Crocka D'Potato, and Italian Potatoes. We are between the twice baked, the vesuvio if we have the chicken vesuvio, or the Crocka D'Potato.
Oh and one can't forget the vegetable choices: Steamed Broccoli, Asparagus, Green Beans Almandine, Sauteed Spinach, and a Garden Fresh Medley of Broccoli, Cauliflower and Carrots. I think we are going with the green beans almandine as they gave the best presentation on a plate.
The owner of the reception place came over to see us (he knows us) and said we couldn't leave without dessert so he brought out Lemoncello Gelato, Tiramisu, and Cannoli's. I had never had lemoncello gelato before so I had that.....melted in the mouth.........truly orgasmic!
The whole dinner for 6 was a part of the reception program so all we had to pay for was the 2 bottles of wine we drank (well, I had water).
OMG I was so full and we still can't decide. We might just have to go back to pick one pasta and one chicken and one potato and one vegetable and do some sampling all over again. Hard decisions here.......
Sunday, October 7, 2007
Dreams
I had the weirdest strangest dream last night and I had to tell you all about it to see if someone can help me interpret it. According to a website called "An Online Guide to Dream Intrepretation", the rules of reality do not apply to the world of dreams and said dream "unifies the body, mind, and spirit". Umm...yeah...kinda scarey!
Now I usually don't dream or remember my dreams. I am usually so tuckered out by the time I go to bed that I am a log. My head hits the pillow and I am out. The next thing I remember is the alarm going off. I have had to stop reading when I go to bed because I fall asleep so fast anymore that I leave my glasses on all night. I learned that to try to see out of twisted glasses is not good in the am, let alone deal with the cast! On to the dream:
I dreamt that hubs and a friend of his, daughter and I, and a wiener dog were all going from wedding reception to wedding reception place looking for the best one for my daughter. The corker: instead of visiting said places during the day, we visited them during actual weddings. I don't remember my attire but I do remember some of the attire worn by some of the wedding attendees (all the way from black tie and glittery dresses to overalls and tennis shoes). There were at least 5 different weddings going on at each place. Daughter, wiener dog, and I would visit each wedding and talk to the people attending and the guide who was telling us what they could do for us. Hubs and his friend were going from wedding to wedding sampling the food. Wiener dog was having fun and in fact at one point we lost him and had to go find him. Once we found him dancing in the middle of a circle of people and the center of attention. Another time he was lying in the middle of the lawn not wanting to move. That's all I remember.
Ok, #1: I would never ever own a wiener dog although my niece and grandniece do. Hubs and I did get a call yesterday to see if we wanted a 4 month old English Bulldog male puppy and we said no.
As for daughter's reception, we never looked at any other place than the one she is having hers at because we know the owner and love the place he and his sons built. It also has special meaning because the owner used to have an Italian restaurant we inhabited a lot when the kids were growing up. They had this scrumptious Italian family feast on Sundays...all you could eat and the kids were free. Also we knew what was out there because we attend weddings of either our kids friends or friend's children's weddings and our banquet place beats them hands down for authentic Italian food.
So what does my dream mean other than I am nuts, weird, and strange? And what does wiener dog have to do with any of it?
Now I usually don't dream or remember my dreams. I am usually so tuckered out by the time I go to bed that I am a log. My head hits the pillow and I am out. The next thing I remember is the alarm going off. I have had to stop reading when I go to bed because I fall asleep so fast anymore that I leave my glasses on all night. I learned that to try to see out of twisted glasses is not good in the am, let alone deal with the cast! On to the dream:
I dreamt that hubs and a friend of his, daughter and I, and a wiener dog were all going from wedding reception to wedding reception place looking for the best one for my daughter. The corker: instead of visiting said places during the day, we visited them during actual weddings. I don't remember my attire but I do remember some of the attire worn by some of the wedding attendees (all the way from black tie and glittery dresses to overalls and tennis shoes). There were at least 5 different weddings going on at each place. Daughter, wiener dog, and I would visit each wedding and talk to the people attending and the guide who was telling us what they could do for us. Hubs and his friend were going from wedding to wedding sampling the food. Wiener dog was having fun and in fact at one point we lost him and had to go find him. Once we found him dancing in the middle of a circle of people and the center of attention. Another time he was lying in the middle of the lawn not wanting to move. That's all I remember.
Ok, #1: I would never ever own a wiener dog although my niece and grandniece do. Hubs and I did get a call yesterday to see if we wanted a 4 month old English Bulldog male puppy and we said no.
As for daughter's reception, we never looked at any other place than the one she is having hers at because we know the owner and love the place he and his sons built. It also has special meaning because the owner used to have an Italian restaurant we inhabited a lot when the kids were growing up. They had this scrumptious Italian family feast on Sundays...all you could eat and the kids were free. Also we knew what was out there because we attend weddings of either our kids friends or friend's children's weddings and our banquet place beats them hands down for authentic Italian food.
So what does my dream mean other than I am nuts, weird, and strange? And what does wiener dog have to do with any of it?
Saturday, September 29, 2007
Anxiety/Panic Attacks
I am sure I am not the only one who has ever felt anxious. As a parent we feel anxiety as soon as our child is born. We worry about our kids every minute of their lives. If you are a new parent and think that worry will lessen as they age....you can't be more wrong. It increases with driving, dating, moving away, etc.
Lately, I have been having anxiety attacks. I don't mean the kind where we dream we run out of the house without any clothes on...or worry we are going to get into a test and forget everything we ever learned.....or worry about a big dinner or party we are putting on and worry you are going to poison your guests or the souffle will fall or your timing would be off on your things you are making or will forget to get something you made out of the frig....or worry if a family event will turn out ok and you say what you really felt to some members of said family you can't stand.....or worry you forgot to turn off the stove or coffeepot or lock the dooots.....or you forget who you are in front of a crowd of people and worry you won't be able to utter a sound or sound intelligent. I have had those all my life. I remember once someone told me to think of the audience naked. Ok that never worked on me. Instead of remembering why I was there I saw the audience naked in my mind and all I could do was bust out laughing.
I digress. When you get one of those attacks, they are full blown heart pounding, butterflies in your stomach, thoughts that overwhelm you so much that it is the only thing you can think of. And if yours are like mine, they are usually blown out of proportion to what is really going on.
Yesterday I had a major one. It all started when I was at the hairdresser and without glasses or facing the TV (this is important). I was listening to a news program. The salon I go to was busy and there was a lot of chatter going on. I was listening to the news. There was a story about a woman missing in a town. Now normally that wouldn't faze me at all. This story did. I have a friend whose first name was the same as the missing woman. They both lived/worked in the same town. The police were actually interviewing the husband of the missing woman as a suspect. In my mind, I instantly thought it was my friend. I started thinking (which sometimes is a bad thing with me). I couldn't stop thinking about it.
My husband picked me up at the salon and took me to the chiropractor. I scooted in to see them with this still weighing on my mind. I was trying to remember when I last saw her post and for the life of me couldn't remember. I started worrying big time about her. I put into my mind that this missing woman was my friend. By the time my husband came back to pick me up, I was a basket case. Immediately I got on my cell and in a panic, called another friend to get the last name of the woman who was missing. I could have waited the 15 minutes to get back home to do it myself. But no, I just had to know right then and there. I had already been worrying for over 2 hours. I was not waiting 10 more minutes.
Thank goodness for my friend. She calmly looked the story up and we found out it wasn't our mutual friend. Let me tell you, the feeling of peace and life was ok again so totally overwhelmed me that I swear I could have fallen asleep. I didn't realize how worked up I had gotten until that moment.
I blame them on my inability to live and function as I used to and the daily frustrations I experience just getting around. It does not get better after even 7 weeks and I have 5 more months to go.
Lately, I have been having anxiety attacks. I don't mean the kind where we dream we run out of the house without any clothes on...or worry we are going to get into a test and forget everything we ever learned.....or worry about a big dinner or party we are putting on and worry you are going to poison your guests or the souffle will fall or your timing would be off on your things you are making or will forget to get something you made out of the frig....or worry if a family event will turn out ok and you say what you really felt to some members of said family you can't stand.....or worry you forgot to turn off the stove or coffeepot or lock the dooots.....or you forget who you are in front of a crowd of people and worry you won't be able to utter a sound or sound intelligent. I have had those all my life. I remember once someone told me to think of the audience naked. Ok that never worked on me. Instead of remembering why I was there I saw the audience naked in my mind and all I could do was bust out laughing.
I digress. When you get one of those attacks, they are full blown heart pounding, butterflies in your stomach, thoughts that overwhelm you so much that it is the only thing you can think of. And if yours are like mine, they are usually blown out of proportion to what is really going on.
Yesterday I had a major one. It all started when I was at the hairdresser and without glasses or facing the TV (this is important). I was listening to a news program. The salon I go to was busy and there was a lot of chatter going on. I was listening to the news. There was a story about a woman missing in a town. Now normally that wouldn't faze me at all. This story did. I have a friend whose first name was the same as the missing woman. They both lived/worked in the same town. The police were actually interviewing the husband of the missing woman as a suspect. In my mind, I instantly thought it was my friend. I started thinking (which sometimes is a bad thing with me). I couldn't stop thinking about it.
My husband picked me up at the salon and took me to the chiropractor. I scooted in to see them with this still weighing on my mind. I was trying to remember when I last saw her post and for the life of me couldn't remember. I started worrying big time about her. I put into my mind that this missing woman was my friend. By the time my husband came back to pick me up, I was a basket case. Immediately I got on my cell and in a panic, called another friend to get the last name of the woman who was missing. I could have waited the 15 minutes to get back home to do it myself. But no, I just had to know right then and there. I had already been worrying for over 2 hours. I was not waiting 10 more minutes.
Thank goodness for my friend. She calmly looked the story up and we found out it wasn't our mutual friend. Let me tell you, the feeling of peace and life was ok again so totally overwhelmed me that I swear I could have fallen asleep. I didn't realize how worked up I had gotten until that moment.
I blame them on my inability to live and function as I used to and the daily frustrations I experience just getting around. It does not get better after even 7 weeks and I have 5 more months to go.
Sunday, September 23, 2007
High Maintenance - Ankle - Cast - Bridesmaid Dresses
I promised you a picture of how my employees decorated the scooter for me and here it is. My dear husband took away my horn and put it in an area I can't get to even with the crutches. I wonder if I was using it a bit too much? *hehehe*
This is a picture of my purple cast. My employees want to paint my toenails tomorrow...one says she has the perfect polish for me. I dunno....I rarely paint my toenails...just too much hassle and I rarely wear sandals. I just have other things to do with my time.
Baby shower went fine yesterday. I am glad I can't have anymore because I swear something was in the water around here. Out of the 75 women who were at the shower, there were 30 of them pregnant. There were only 10 of us who either didn't have a kid under the age of 7 there or wasn't pregnant. It was chaotic but fun and a nice diversion for me.
Things are progressing with my new client. There has been continued drama from the people who were let go or job definitions changed plus someone she had hired before and let her down tried to step back into the picture promising her the world yet didn't produce the things she was told to bring to the meeting.
As for me, hubs got his new computer in a week or so ago but I haven't had time to transfer his documents nor put his programs onto his new computer (mainly his EMR program), etc. I have been working on doing that since Friday along with getting the new database done for the client so I can start billing for her and getting her some cash flow. I have gotten hubs new computer all done and his documents and programs off his old computer. I have transferred my programs from my old laptop to hubs old laptop but am still working on getting the rest of the files transferred. Then I will delete my files off my old laptop and give it to my daughter. I have a few more hours to finish and should get that done.
Wedding plan update: invitations, programs, place cards, announcements, menu for reception, thank you cards, invitations for bridal shower all picked out and ordered. My daughter chose to scrapbook all the above so guess I will learn to scrapbook. We have 4 months before we have to mail them but only 2 months for the shower invites to be finished and mailed. Hopefully that will be enough time to get them done. There might not be a Christmas letter this year.
Bridesmaid dresses picked out...here is a pic but it will be in a light pink. Groomsmen will wear a black tux with silver vest. Groom will wear a black tux and white vest. Daughter will use shades of pink in the bouquets and pull in the silver into the ribbons. Still so much to do.
This is a picture of my purple cast. My employees want to paint my toenails tomorrow...one says she has the perfect polish for me. I dunno....I rarely paint my toenails...just too much hassle and I rarely wear sandals. I just have other things to do with my time.
Baby shower went fine yesterday. I am glad I can't have anymore because I swear something was in the water around here. Out of the 75 women who were at the shower, there were 30 of them pregnant. There were only 10 of us who either didn't have a kid under the age of 7 there or wasn't pregnant. It was chaotic but fun and a nice diversion for me.
Things are progressing with my new client. There has been continued drama from the people who were let go or job definitions changed plus someone she had hired before and let her down tried to step back into the picture promising her the world yet didn't produce the things she was told to bring to the meeting.
As for me, hubs got his new computer in a week or so ago but I haven't had time to transfer his documents nor put his programs onto his new computer (mainly his EMR program), etc. I have been working on doing that since Friday along with getting the new database done for the client so I can start billing for her and getting her some cash flow. I have gotten hubs new computer all done and his documents and programs off his old computer. I have transferred my programs from my old laptop to hubs old laptop but am still working on getting the rest of the files transferred. Then I will delete my files off my old laptop and give it to my daughter. I have a few more hours to finish and should get that done.
Wedding plan update: invitations, programs, place cards, announcements, menu for reception, thank you cards, invitations for bridal shower all picked out and ordered. My daughter chose to scrapbook all the above so guess I will learn to scrapbook. We have 4 months before we have to mail them but only 2 months for the shower invites to be finished and mailed. Hopefully that will be enough time to get them done. There might not be a Christmas letter this year.
Bridesmaid dresses picked out...here is a pic but it will be in a light pink. Groomsmen will wear a black tux with silver vest. Groom will wear a black tux and white vest. Daughter will use shades of pink in the bouquets and pull in the silver into the ribbons. Still so much to do.
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
New toy
I consulted a surgeon on Monday and he recommended a non-weight bearing cast for another 2 weeks and then we will see when surgery will be. I can't stand on my ankle at all without either the cast or a brace on and even with them it is really painful. I still have my wheelchair but I still needed the crutches for small areas which killed my left hand (still in splint/cast) and my left knee (still in splint). Being non-weight bearing is a pain. Well today I am taking delivery of this gorgeous scooter. I can't wait. It is lightweight so I can drag it upstairs with me when I go up on my rear. It is smaller so it will go in the bathroom. Plus it will let me be a bit more mobile. Granted I am getting a lot accomplished sitting on my rear but said rear is spreading. I need it exercised. I tried scooting across the floor on my rear but that gets tiring let alone I have rug burn butt now. Crawling is out of the picture because of the left knee and cast on the right foot. I am so excited! Great inventions!
Cast colors are all the rage! In the past 5 weeks I have worn a red cast, a Chicago Bears cast, and a green cast. This time I have a neon purple cast. Now I am 53. My leg hair doesn't grow much anymore or I should say it didn't used to. Seems the cast has miracle grow in it. Those leg hairs are at least an inch long now. AND I CAN'T SHAVE THEM. The leg has been in the cast so long, the skin is softer. If I shaved, I would remove a layer or 2 of skin. The cast itches enough without razor burn under there too. So instead before I let them put the new cast on Monday, I gooped up the leg with zinc oxide and it made it feel much better or at least so far.
Monday's appointment was a one stop shop. I had the hand doctor see me about the hand. I then saw the knee doctor for the knee, then the podiatrist for my ankle. All in the same office. They came to me. 3 copays though...one for each doctor.
It is also official. I now have a handicapped tag for the car. I had resisted getting one but it is hard for people who take me places to let me off along with my equipment then go park the car, then walk back and reverse that to put me back in the car. It's only a temporary one for 3 months. Let's pray that is all it is. I want to walk down the aisle for my daughter's wedding.
By the way, I will love the basket on the scooter. I was becoming a bag lady carting things around in a plastic bag. Also there is a bell like those on bicycles. I can't wait to play with that one although I was getting handy with the crutches and using them to get people's attention (mainly my husband). I can propel the crutch much in the same way track kids do the javelin.
Sunday, September 16, 2007
My 2 days of Managerial Consulting
I wrote this in my journal about the consulting job I did this past week. Thought I would give you an insight into what I did and because I can't think of anything else to blog about and I don't want to talk about my foot and ankle.
Wednesday: Right now I am sitting in a hotel room getting ready to do that consultant work on a doctor's office starting tomorrow. I had a full day already today with the officer manager's meeting I did from 8am to 1:30pm then went to the L office and worked there until 7pm when L picked me up to come up here. We made it up here in less time than I anticipated. We elected to have separate rooms mainly because I needed a handicapped room and those only offer 1 queen sized bed in them. Sharing a bed with another female especially one who is your employee is not good for me. I have the splint on the knee, the splint on the hand, and the cast on the ankle plus I am used to sleeping in a king sized bed and tend to do the snuggle thang. Not good if I am in a smaller bed and with an employee. Wonder if that would fall under employer sexual harrassment? Anyway, I am sitting here drinking a glass of milk going over my game plan. I can't get on the internet because the secure wireless connection wasn't working. My brain is still wired from today's activities and I can't concentrate on the book I brought to read. Called hubs and we talked for a while. The doctor called and we set up the time we were meeting for breakfast so guess I better get to bed since it is now 11pm and the alarm will go off at 5am.
Thursday: Met with the doctor for breakfast then over to the office. Met all the employees. Within the 1st 15 minutes I had a headache from the chaos of the office dynamics. So game plan changed and I decided to change what I did when. I started with handing each employee an unlined piece of paper. I then gave them the instructions that they were to write on one side what they did and on the back what they thought each other employee did. After collecting those, I spent 30 minutes with each girl and then had L do the same, taking notes all the time. That took up the entire morning. Lunch was takeout from a local burger place (and yes although I hate hamburgers, I snarfed it down because I didn't know when my next meal was going to be). Then it was time for patients. I reobserved how the patient and paperwork flow was and took notes to compare that to what it was like without patients. I thought it was chaotic before...OMG it became psychotic. It was really hard to keep myself focused when everyone around me was so disorganized and the whole flow was so disruptive. I am actually surprised they had a practice at all. I then 'became a patient' and went around experiencing what they were seeing and doing, how long wait times were, seeing what they were seeing as far as room decor, cleanliness, etc. Around 4pm I started in learning their software system and after seeing that no one really knew what reports the software they were using could produce, I called their software management people and got trained fast. I ran reports and compiled them for anaylsis later. I looked up and it was 8pm so we took off with everything and went to dinner with the doctor and office manager. Really nice place....called a supper club and decorated 50's style.....great food though and fantastic view of Lake Michigan. Right now I just got finished analyzing the data and reports which were off the wall. AR (accounts receivable) was off in outer space with most of their AR in the 120+ days. Interesting was the fact that there was no AR for the 0-30, 30-60, or 60-90. That meant that NO billing has been done for at least 3 months at all. I found this one report called the unsubmitted report which means the charges were entered into the computer but not submitted to the insurance company. Normally there should be zippo unsubmitted. The report was 22 pages long and included charges dating back to 2005. What I found most interesting though was what I had the employees do (the job description of themselves and each other employee). I found there only to be 2 employees who knew what the others were doing. The others instead of listing the names of the employees listed them instead by department letting me know they didn't even know their names. Also interesting was how they followed directions. One employee got lined paper to write hers on totally going against the instructions. Then I analyzed their handwriting which told me what I had already found out that day. Interesting things you find in handwriting analysis. I complied my observations and plan to go over with the doctor tomorrow at breakfast again at 7am. Before we left the office the doctor got an email from one of the employees...calling me a bitch and interfering and that if the doctor was going to listen to me then she was quitting. Interestingly enough she was the one who didn't follow directions and also the one who couldn't produce what she was working on and contracts the doctor was credentialed with. She just gave me excuses. Note she is paid 40 hours to do nothing but credentialing and contract negotiations yet couldn't produce one thing she was currently working on.
Friday: L and I met with the doctor this morning at 7am giving her my thoughts and proposals. I got full approval to implement all changes and firings. Yep we fired people and the one who couldn't follow directions was the 1st to go. I set up a credentialing application online that goes out to a lot of insurance companies (one stop place) and downloaded the master form into Microsoft Word and filled it out (that took me all of 30 minutes to do). All they have to do to keep it up is update the info and then I trained an underutilized girl on that. The dear doctor I am doing all this for arranged for me to get an MRI of my ankle today free of charge! She is a peach and people are just walking all over her. So I found out today what I did to my ankle. Just loverly. Now I have to work another surgery into my schedule. Anyway, mostly what I found in the ones I fired were lazy people who were taking total advantage of the doctor who had retired but had to come out of retirement when the doctors who had bought her practice ran up huge bills and then declared bankruptcy. Since she was a cosigner on the loan given to them, she had to repay the money. She currently has a lawsuit against them. She came back out of retirement and is trying to keep the practice going and believe me, it is a great practice just zippo cash flow. I have already been doing her surgery center billing and she trusts me (the prior biller brought in only 1/25th of what I made for her this past year because of stupidity and not appealing denied claims). As for the billing department: the doctor is keeping the biller but it has to be done inhouse now so her hours can be accounted for. She is only to work on the AR in her system. All new billing is coming to me. I set up the new software application then L and I trained the girls on it. It is a much easier system than the one she has and the girls were really excited about it. For right now I will do the billing but I plan on training one of the girls I really liked to do it. She was so underutilized before. I had each girl redefine their jobs with everyone. They were all introduced to each other and complimented on what they do. As for the 2 other billing girls: one was working 20+ hours a week and her only job was inputting new charges...she was fired (she has been paid 20 hours per week since May and no charges were entered into the system since May so what was she doing? Heaven only knows!); and the other was paid for 20+ hours a week to do nothing but send out statements (yet interesting enough not one dime was collected on any of those statements) and it takes my office only 2 hours a week to do the same job. I will be going through day by day their entire schedule for the past year to see what else was never even billed into their system. As I said I found the things from May that not even billed let alone the files I found that were unsubmitted. I can only imagine what else I will find for the entire year. There was another redundant employee whose only job was to clean the rooms after a patient was in it. Yeah right for $25.00 per hour for 40 hours a week to do nothing but clean rooms. That one went too. There were 2 nurses and 2 certified medical assistants there. Their new jobs are to clean the rooms themselves. Total of who lost their jobs: 5. I retrained the front office girls who have more brains than what they were doing. They are taking over some things and lessening what the OM was doing. I put them into a proactive mode rather than a reactice chaotic mode. By today when I left, there were pleases and thank yous and good employees left and a pride in the office and a comfort level that they are going to make it and not end up closing their doors. I plan on going back up within a month hopefully depending on my ankle to follow up and start some more teaching on the new software, etc so they can take billing and credentialing back in their own office. We finally left there around 4:30pm.....not a good time to drive back to Chicago right into the midst of rush hour and bumper to bumper traffic. It took us an hour and half to go up there and 3 hours to drive home. Hubs got home about an hour after me so it was me and one of my granddoggies. I decompressed, exhausted from the past 2 days, then looked for something in the frig/freezer for dinner. I scanned the mail (nothing but bills which can wait for another day). Did get the proposal though for the new roof which was about what I expected. Threw frozen marinara into a pan to thaw for dinner. Called son and had him pick up a loaf of bread to make garlic bread on his way home from work. Made mostaccoli with marinara for dinner with garlic bread and salad. Gave hubs the MRI x-rays and the report from the radiologist who read them. Then unpacked and went to bed. I am so happy I have 2 days to decompress before going back to work on Monday although I know I will be doing work for this doctor over the weekend. Just knowing though that I can do it in my robe without makeup makes me happy. Just have to convince the surgeon for my ankle to postpone it until next week so I can get things rearranged workwise to be off a week.
Wednesday: Right now I am sitting in a hotel room getting ready to do that consultant work on a doctor's office starting tomorrow. I had a full day already today with the officer manager's meeting I did from 8am to 1:30pm then went to the L office and worked there until 7pm when L picked me up to come up here. We made it up here in less time than I anticipated. We elected to have separate rooms mainly because I needed a handicapped room and those only offer 1 queen sized bed in them. Sharing a bed with another female especially one who is your employee is not good for me. I have the splint on the knee, the splint on the hand, and the cast on the ankle plus I am used to sleeping in a king sized bed and tend to do the snuggle thang. Not good if I am in a smaller bed and with an employee. Wonder if that would fall under employer sexual harrassment? Anyway, I am sitting here drinking a glass of milk going over my game plan. I can't get on the internet because the secure wireless connection wasn't working. My brain is still wired from today's activities and I can't concentrate on the book I brought to read. Called hubs and we talked for a while. The doctor called and we set up the time we were meeting for breakfast so guess I better get to bed since it is now 11pm and the alarm will go off at 5am.
Thursday: Met with the doctor for breakfast then over to the office. Met all the employees. Within the 1st 15 minutes I had a headache from the chaos of the office dynamics. So game plan changed and I decided to change what I did when. I started with handing each employee an unlined piece of paper. I then gave them the instructions that they were to write on one side what they did and on the back what they thought each other employee did. After collecting those, I spent 30 minutes with each girl and then had L do the same, taking notes all the time. That took up the entire morning. Lunch was takeout from a local burger place (and yes although I hate hamburgers, I snarfed it down because I didn't know when my next meal was going to be). Then it was time for patients. I reobserved how the patient and paperwork flow was and took notes to compare that to what it was like without patients. I thought it was chaotic before...OMG it became psychotic. It was really hard to keep myself focused when everyone around me was so disorganized and the whole flow was so disruptive. I am actually surprised they had a practice at all. I then 'became a patient' and went around experiencing what they were seeing and doing, how long wait times were, seeing what they were seeing as far as room decor, cleanliness, etc. Around 4pm I started in learning their software system and after seeing that no one really knew what reports the software they were using could produce, I called their software management people and got trained fast. I ran reports and compiled them for anaylsis later. I looked up and it was 8pm so we took off with everything and went to dinner with the doctor and office manager. Really nice place....called a supper club and decorated 50's style.....great food though and fantastic view of Lake Michigan. Right now I just got finished analyzing the data and reports which were off the wall. AR (accounts receivable) was off in outer space with most of their AR in the 120+ days. Interesting was the fact that there was no AR for the 0-30, 30-60, or 60-90. That meant that NO billing has been done for at least 3 months at all. I found this one report called the unsubmitted report which means the charges were entered into the computer but not submitted to the insurance company. Normally there should be zippo unsubmitted. The report was 22 pages long and included charges dating back to 2005. What I found most interesting though was what I had the employees do (the job description of themselves and each other employee). I found there only to be 2 employees who knew what the others were doing. The others instead of listing the names of the employees listed them instead by department letting me know they didn't even know their names. Also interesting was how they followed directions. One employee got lined paper to write hers on totally going against the instructions. Then I analyzed their handwriting which told me what I had already found out that day. Interesting things you find in handwriting analysis. I complied my observations and plan to go over with the doctor tomorrow at breakfast again at 7am. Before we left the office the doctor got an email from one of the employees...calling me a bitch and interfering and that if the doctor was going to listen to me then she was quitting. Interestingly enough she was the one who didn't follow directions and also the one who couldn't produce what she was working on and contracts the doctor was credentialed with. She just gave me excuses. Note she is paid 40 hours to do nothing but credentialing and contract negotiations yet couldn't produce one thing she was currently working on.
Friday: L and I met with the doctor this morning at 7am giving her my thoughts and proposals. I got full approval to implement all changes and firings. Yep we fired people and the one who couldn't follow directions was the 1st to go. I set up a credentialing application online that goes out to a lot of insurance companies (one stop place) and downloaded the master form into Microsoft Word and filled it out (that took me all of 30 minutes to do). All they have to do to keep it up is update the info and then I trained an underutilized girl on that. The dear doctor I am doing all this for arranged for me to get an MRI of my ankle today free of charge! She is a peach and people are just walking all over her. So I found out today what I did to my ankle. Just loverly. Now I have to work another surgery into my schedule. Anyway, mostly what I found in the ones I fired were lazy people who were taking total advantage of the doctor who had retired but had to come out of retirement when the doctors who had bought her practice ran up huge bills and then declared bankruptcy. Since she was a cosigner on the loan given to them, she had to repay the money. She currently has a lawsuit against them. She came back out of retirement and is trying to keep the practice going and believe me, it is a great practice just zippo cash flow. I have already been doing her surgery center billing and she trusts me (the prior biller brought in only 1/25th of what I made for her this past year because of stupidity and not appealing denied claims). As for the billing department: the doctor is keeping the biller but it has to be done inhouse now so her hours can be accounted for. She is only to work on the AR in her system. All new billing is coming to me. I set up the new software application then L and I trained the girls on it. It is a much easier system than the one she has and the girls were really excited about it. For right now I will do the billing but I plan on training one of the girls I really liked to do it. She was so underutilized before. I had each girl redefine their jobs with everyone. They were all introduced to each other and complimented on what they do. As for the 2 other billing girls: one was working 20+ hours a week and her only job was inputting new charges...she was fired (she has been paid 20 hours per week since May and no charges were entered into the system since May so what was she doing? Heaven only knows!); and the other was paid for 20+ hours a week to do nothing but send out statements (yet interesting enough not one dime was collected on any of those statements) and it takes my office only 2 hours a week to do the same job. I will be going through day by day their entire schedule for the past year to see what else was never even billed into their system. As I said I found the things from May that not even billed let alone the files I found that were unsubmitted. I can only imagine what else I will find for the entire year. There was another redundant employee whose only job was to clean the rooms after a patient was in it. Yeah right for $25.00 per hour for 40 hours a week to do nothing but clean rooms. That one went too. There were 2 nurses and 2 certified medical assistants there. Their new jobs are to clean the rooms themselves. Total of who lost their jobs: 5. I retrained the front office girls who have more brains than what they were doing. They are taking over some things and lessening what the OM was doing. I put them into a proactive mode rather than a reactice chaotic mode. By today when I left, there were pleases and thank yous and good employees left and a pride in the office and a comfort level that they are going to make it and not end up closing their doors. I plan on going back up within a month hopefully depending on my ankle to follow up and start some more teaching on the new software, etc so they can take billing and credentialing back in their own office. We finally left there around 4:30pm.....not a good time to drive back to Chicago right into the midst of rush hour and bumper to bumper traffic. It took us an hour and half to go up there and 3 hours to drive home. Hubs got home about an hour after me so it was me and one of my granddoggies. I decompressed, exhausted from the past 2 days, then looked for something in the frig/freezer for dinner. I scanned the mail (nothing but bills which can wait for another day). Did get the proposal though for the new roof which was about what I expected. Threw frozen marinara into a pan to thaw for dinner. Called son and had him pick up a loaf of bread to make garlic bread on his way home from work. Made mostaccoli with marinara for dinner with garlic bread and salad. Gave hubs the MRI x-rays and the report from the radiologist who read them. Then unpacked and went to bed. I am so happy I have 2 days to decompress before going back to work on Monday although I know I will be doing work for this doctor over the weekend. Just knowing though that I can do it in my robe without makeup makes me happy. Just have to convince the surgeon for my ankle to postpone it until next week so I can get things rearranged workwise to be off a week.
Saturday, September 15, 2007
Ankle Update
There are 3 different kinds of ankle sprains. The severity of the ankle sprain depends on how much you turned your foot in or out. The forces put on the ligaments to turn it in or out cause the ligaments to stretch beyond their normal limits. If the force is too strong, the ligaments can tear.
The amount of force determines the grade of the sprain.
Grade 1 sprain: Slight stretching and some damage to the fibers (fibrils) of the ligament. You would have minimal swelling and tenderness. It doesn't impair your activities much. Treatment would be RICE (rest, ice, compression, elevation) and usually you are fine within a week or 2.
Grade 2 sprain: Partial tearing of the ligament. If the ankle joint is examined and moved in certain ways, abnormal looseness (called laxity) of the ankle joint occurs. You will have moderate swelling and tenderness and won't be able to move your ankle very well. You might be moderately impaired (crutches, removable or soft cast, etc). Usually you are find within a month.
Grade 3 sprain: Complete tear of the ligament. If the examiner pulls or pushes on the ankle joint in certain movements, major instability occurs. There is a lot of swelling and tenderness and you might be totally unable to stand on your foot at all. Treatment consists of total immobilization (walking cast) for up to 6 weeks then gradual physical therapy to strengthen the ligaments.
There is actually one worse than Grade 3 - they call these the high ankle sprains and tend not to heal as well. If the injury seems stable, then a non-weight bearing cast for 6 weeks followed by more testing for healing and stability then physical therapy. If the ankle is unstable treatment is again treated in a non-weight bearing cast for 6 weeks. If it remains unstable, then a 'syndesmotic screw' has to be placed between the tibia and fibula to hold the bones in proper position while the syndesmotic ligaments heal. You are placed in a non-weight bearing cast for 3 months. If you walk on the leg/foot at all, the screw will break. At 3 months, another MRI will determine if the screws can be removed. If they can, then you go into a weight bearing cast for another 6-8 weeks then intensive physical therapy to relearn how to walk.
I had the MRI yesterday. I have an unstable grade 3 sprain high ankle sprain along with a complete rupture of most of the major ligaments in the foot and ankle which allows one to be able to stand and walk. So I will need surgery and lucky me to get screwed not once but twice (2 screws) along with suturing or repairing the ends of the ruptured ligaments together then reinforcing them with what is called a GraftJacket. At the end of the 3 months I get to go for another surgery if the MRI says I have healed I get to be unscrewed. I might be able to walk with a cane by the time of my daughter's wedding in May. If the MRI doesn't show any healing of the syndesmotic tears I will have to have my ankle fused together and that takes 6 months of non-weight bearing to heal and I will never be able to move my ankle again.
Not a happy camper right now.
The amount of force determines the grade of the sprain.
Grade 1 sprain: Slight stretching and some damage to the fibers (fibrils) of the ligament. You would have minimal swelling and tenderness. It doesn't impair your activities much. Treatment would be RICE (rest, ice, compression, elevation) and usually you are fine within a week or 2.
Grade 2 sprain: Partial tearing of the ligament. If the ankle joint is examined and moved in certain ways, abnormal looseness (called laxity) of the ankle joint occurs. You will have moderate swelling and tenderness and won't be able to move your ankle very well. You might be moderately impaired (crutches, removable or soft cast, etc). Usually you are find within a month.
Grade 3 sprain: Complete tear of the ligament. If the examiner pulls or pushes on the ankle joint in certain movements, major instability occurs. There is a lot of swelling and tenderness and you might be totally unable to stand on your foot at all. Treatment consists of total immobilization (walking cast) for up to 6 weeks then gradual physical therapy to strengthen the ligaments.
There is actually one worse than Grade 3 - they call these the high ankle sprains and tend not to heal as well. If the injury seems stable, then a non-weight bearing cast for 6 weeks followed by more testing for healing and stability then physical therapy. If the ankle is unstable treatment is again treated in a non-weight bearing cast for 6 weeks. If it remains unstable, then a 'syndesmotic screw' has to be placed between the tibia and fibula to hold the bones in proper position while the syndesmotic ligaments heal. You are placed in a non-weight bearing cast for 3 months. If you walk on the leg/foot at all, the screw will break. At 3 months, another MRI will determine if the screws can be removed. If they can, then you go into a weight bearing cast for another 6-8 weeks then intensive physical therapy to relearn how to walk.
I had the MRI yesterday. I have an unstable grade 3 sprain high ankle sprain along with a complete rupture of most of the major ligaments in the foot and ankle which allows one to be able to stand and walk. So I will need surgery and lucky me to get screwed not once but twice (2 screws) along with suturing or repairing the ends of the ruptured ligaments together then reinforcing them with what is called a GraftJacket. At the end of the 3 months I get to go for another surgery if the MRI says I have healed I get to be unscrewed. I might be able to walk with a cane by the time of my daughter's wedding in May. If the MRI doesn't show any healing of the syndesmotic tears I will have to have my ankle fused together and that takes 6 months of non-weight bearing to heal and I will never be able to move my ankle again.
Not a happy camper right now.
Monday, September 10, 2007
Tagged again - this time on quirks
I got tagged again via email. I am to list six quirks about myself.
1. I hate the sound of dog whistles, fingernails across a blackboard, knives across a plate, soprano opera singers, rubbing balloons till they make that squeaking noise. All the above drive me up the wall and will drive me from a room.
2. My kitchen has to be clean before I can go to sleep. There can be a zillion things on the floor and cabinets and it won't bother me. Dishes in the sink or countertops do.
3. Words used by kids: wazzup, the word like....as in like everyone like does that, she goes instead of she states or says, double negatives in the same sentence.
4. I have to have everything organized before I can work on anything. My work has to be in piles by importance before I will touch them.
5. I am a list girl. I make lists on things to do that day, things to get at the grocery store (and they are listed in the exact rows where they can be found in the store), and short term and long term goals. I used to be post-it queen but would lose my post-its or leave them in pockets and wash them so I went to yellow legal tablets.
6. I have a routine for morning when I get up and evening when I go to bed. Deviating off said routine pisses me off. I like quiet when I get ready for bed. I decompress. I hate it when hubs becomes 'Mr Chatty' at bedtime and get pissed and I hate getting pissed before bed. I can't sleep then.
1. I hate the sound of dog whistles, fingernails across a blackboard, knives across a plate, soprano opera singers, rubbing balloons till they make that squeaking noise. All the above drive me up the wall and will drive me from a room.
2. My kitchen has to be clean before I can go to sleep. There can be a zillion things on the floor and cabinets and it won't bother me. Dishes in the sink or countertops do.
3. Words used by kids: wazzup, the word like....as in like everyone like does that, she goes instead of she states or says, double negatives in the same sentence.
4. I have to have everything organized before I can work on anything. My work has to be in piles by importance before I will touch them.
5. I am a list girl. I make lists on things to do that day, things to get at the grocery store (and they are listed in the exact rows where they can be found in the store), and short term and long term goals. I used to be post-it queen but would lose my post-its or leave them in pockets and wash them so I went to yellow legal tablets.
6. I have a routine for morning when I get up and evening when I go to bed. Deviating off said routine pisses me off. I like quiet when I get ready for bed. I decompress. I hate it when hubs becomes 'Mr Chatty' at bedtime and get pissed and I hate getting pissed before bed. I can't sleep then.
Back to whirlwind week
Back but have a whirlwind week coming up so don't know how much blogging I will get in. Tired and exhausted. Great band for the inaugural reception last night. Wanted to dance so bad but was a good girl and stayed in my wheelchair. My x-rays were passed around and the consensus of opinion supports my husband's - remain non-weight bearing in cast on right ankle then retake ultrasound and x-ray. If ligaments still hasn't repaired themselves and the talus fracture hasn't healed, I am off for surgery on the ankle. Knee and hand orthopedic doctor are on hold too for the 6 week mark. Root canals on the 2 teeth on hold till I have a driver to take me there (can't drive) but will be trying to get that scheduled this coming week for next week. It will be 4 weeks this coming Tuesday that I fell and there is no lessening of the pain although I am only on anti-inflammatories.
Great seminar. Learned a few things. Taught 4 classes. Was asked back. Life is good!
Great seminar. Learned a few things. Taught 4 classes. Was asked back. Life is good!
Thursday, September 6, 2007
Off Again
Well, after office hours today hubs and I leave again for another seminar. Thankfully not that far away so no plane involved. I am still in the wheelchair. My rear still hurts but I transfer out of the chair as much as possible. Sure wish they made a seat cushion that was comfortable. You all be good!
Wednesday, September 5, 2007
Things you learn and get done
Yesterday when we lost power once again for who knows why, I got on the phone to the township offices and complained once again about the number of trees on top of power lines in the utility easement (their property) and that are laying on power lines. We have yet another storm coming in (thankfully which will take temps back down to the 70's and get rid of this humidity) and I was worried that we would lose power once again and those lines would break, causing us to lose power again for days. I have called ComEd and they said it was the township's responsibility and when I called the township they said it was ComEd's problem. Almost 2 weeks and nada got done as they were too busy passing the job off on each other.
So I took pics. I emailed them to both ComEd and to the township. I stated in that email that in 12 hours, the next email would be to the newspaper if this still had not been taken care of.
Why it was amazing......within 2 hours, there was both ComEd and a township truck (first I had seen of either in the 2 week aftermath of cleanup). What is more amazing that by the time I got home after 12 hours of work, it was all cleaned up and the branches left out in nice neat stacks by the street. This morning I woke to the sound of the tree branch muncher and we had a nice pile of wood chips left for our flower beds. So within 24 hours everything was done and we are starting the road back to being a nice looking neighborhood.
I have the air conditioning service here at the house right now assessing the damage to the furnace and air conditioner (there is some corrosion on the some kind of board that regulates them...pardon my not understanding what these thingamingies are called). He said we also need a new flue so I need to go research what that is so I sound intelligent. Hopefully hubs will be home soon!
So I took pics. I emailed them to both ComEd and to the township. I stated in that email that in 12 hours, the next email would be to the newspaper if this still had not been taken care of.
Why it was amazing......within 2 hours, there was both ComEd and a township truck (first I had seen of either in the 2 week aftermath of cleanup). What is more amazing that by the time I got home after 12 hours of work, it was all cleaned up and the branches left out in nice neat stacks by the street. This morning I woke to the sound of the tree branch muncher and we had a nice pile of wood chips left for our flower beds. So within 24 hours everything was done and we are starting the road back to being a nice looking neighborhood.
I have the air conditioning service here at the house right now assessing the damage to the furnace and air conditioner (there is some corrosion on the some kind of board that regulates them...pardon my not understanding what these thingamingies are called). He said we also need a new flue so I need to go research what that is so I sound intelligent. Hopefully hubs will be home soon!
Tuesday, September 4, 2007
In Need of a Karmic Cleansing
Any ideas anyone? I am beginning to believe Mira that I have this black cloud hanging over me. I need it gone. Vamboosed.
Today started at 6am when hubs got up and decided that everyone in the house needed to be awake too. He had just left for a hospital surgery and I had fallen back to sleep when the phone rang. It was the hospital telling me the patient hadn't showed up yet and what did I want to do. Me: "Well, let's see now. How about we use our heads and realize that the doctor just might already be there changing into scrubs and on the hospital pager system so why don't you just page him?" Not so bright nurse says..."this is his pager". I say, "well you are correct but you called his office pager not the hospital pager. Did you try that pager?" She hung up on me. Since I was already awake I just got up and did some work that I still had to finish up from last night. Hubs came home and said: "Like the patient never showed so I cancelled the surgery". My response: "Like good idea.....helps to have the patient when you are doing surgery on her". So because of said surgery we had later office hours. He decides to do some more painting on the house to try and finish it up. I decide to just go ahead and go and take my shower since it takes me awhile to get ready.
In the shower and the power goes out. Now I am thinking ok...blew a fuse. Will handle it when I get out. Hubs comes in as I was finishing and says, "we don't have power".
I said, "what gave you that clue?"
He said, "like my radio went out".
I said, "did you check the fuses?"
He said, "the whole street is out".
I say did you call ComEd?
He says no where's the number.
Now I am a very organized person. I have this huge list next to the phone of important phone numbers. I said did you look there? He proceeds to go downstairs to get the number and call. Then I hear him yelling up at me....where on the page is the number. My response was that it was on the sheet under utilities (yes I am anal and I categorized the important numbers). So he finally finds the number and calls it. He comes back upstairs and says well that was a waste. I say why. He said....well it was in Spanish. **major eyeroll** I said well, did you push the button for it to speak to you in English? He said no he should not have to - we lived in America. I said bring me the number.
So I call ComEd. Yet another power outage in our area. I said, "would you please tell me what act of who did this one?" Mame (when did I become a mame?)...."your power should be restored by 12:15PM". By golly it was. 12:15 on the nose. Wonder how they knew that?
Come to the main office to find our surgical room flooded again by the restaurant next door. Right now we are in a claim from last week from them. Seems the repair their plumber made didn't work so their main sink/dishwasher area is springing a leak with grease, water, chile peppers, etc onto the floor in our surgical room. Not good. The cabinets are already involved and the entire floor has to come out. We took out just a small portion of the wall and there was 2 inches thick of grease.
Wonder what time I will get out tonight? I just want to go back to bed. And please send me some good juju beans or something.
Today started at 6am when hubs got up and decided that everyone in the house needed to be awake too. He had just left for a hospital surgery and I had fallen back to sleep when the phone rang. It was the hospital telling me the patient hadn't showed up yet and what did I want to do. Me: "Well, let's see now. How about we use our heads and realize that the doctor just might already be there changing into scrubs and on the hospital pager system so why don't you just page him?" Not so bright nurse says..."this is his pager". I say, "well you are correct but you called his office pager not the hospital pager. Did you try that pager?" She hung up on me. Since I was already awake I just got up and did some work that I still had to finish up from last night. Hubs came home and said: "Like the patient never showed so I cancelled the surgery". My response: "Like good idea.....helps to have the patient when you are doing surgery on her". So because of said surgery we had later office hours. He decides to do some more painting on the house to try and finish it up. I decide to just go ahead and go and take my shower since it takes me awhile to get ready.
In the shower and the power goes out. Now I am thinking ok...blew a fuse. Will handle it when I get out. Hubs comes in as I was finishing and says, "we don't have power".
I said, "what gave you that clue?"
He said, "like my radio went out".
I said, "did you check the fuses?"
He said, "the whole street is out".
I say did you call ComEd?
He says no where's the number.
Now I am a very organized person. I have this huge list next to the phone of important phone numbers. I said did you look there? He proceeds to go downstairs to get the number and call. Then I hear him yelling up at me....where on the page is the number. My response was that it was on the sheet under utilities (yes I am anal and I categorized the important numbers). So he finally finds the number and calls it. He comes back upstairs and says well that was a waste. I say why. He said....well it was in Spanish. **major eyeroll** I said well, did you push the button for it to speak to you in English? He said no he should not have to - we lived in America. I said bring me the number.
So I call ComEd. Yet another power outage in our area. I said, "would you please tell me what act of who did this one?" Mame (when did I become a mame?)...."your power should be restored by 12:15PM". By golly it was. 12:15 on the nose. Wonder how they knew that?
Come to the main office to find our surgical room flooded again by the restaurant next door. Right now we are in a claim from last week from them. Seems the repair their plumber made didn't work so their main sink/dishwasher area is springing a leak with grease, water, chile peppers, etc onto the floor in our surgical room. Not good. The cabinets are already involved and the entire floor has to come out. We took out just a small portion of the wall and there was 2 inches thick of grease.
Wonder what time I will get out tonight? I just want to go back to bed. And please send me some good juju beans or something.
Monday, September 3, 2007
This and That
Seems all of you have lots of better things to do than I do. We were planning on going to our village's fest this afternoon. It actually has been going on since Saturday but it's a bit hard still for me to get around. Today though is the Taste where local restaurants put on their wares and charity groups run them and get the profits (we used to work them in the past when the kids were younger). Today's lineup that we wanted to see is Eddie Diamond in a 'Blast from the Past' then a Bon Jovi Tribute called 'Bad Medicine' then Christopher Cross followed by fireworks. We have decided not to go until later because today's weather is to get to 88 with 60% humidity and a dew point of 63 which means hot sticky midwest weather and way too hot for me with 3 casts on and for hubs to push me around. His words but how can one argue with the person who pushes you around (in the good way)?
Hubs and I did sort out the 5 photo albums that had gotten flooded in our basement (did I mention we had water to our 2nd step when our power was out last weekend?) We were able to save quite a few pictures. I haven't been down in the basement yet as I can't negotiate those stairs with my casts but I saw what we lost as I had to catalogue it when the people I had hired to do the cleanup brought it to me. Most of what we lost we were planning on throwing away anyway as we had already been sorting and cleaning the other rooms for the wedding and getting rid of things we don't need anymore. I had stored it in the basement until I rented a dumpster to take it. But I guesstimate that we lost around $5000.00 not including the carpeting and half of the walls and insulation but we aren't going to claim it on our homeowner's policy. I don't know about homeowner's insurance policies around you but here if you make more than 3 claims within a certain amount of time, you are cancelled. I am not taking that chance with a minor claim. My freezer, water pump, furnace, water softner and hot water heater were all up on cinder blocks so they were all ok. We will wait now to redo the basement this winter.
I have gotten a lot of work done for my clients this weekend along with the laundry and end of month invoicing and bill paying. Hubs set me up on the breakfast room table with a printer, computer, and internet cable so I can stay with my legs elevated. I did have to have surgery to remove the bone chips in my left knee and left palm as they were going to cause a problem but to me it was a minor surgery and just incisions to heal. Stitches come out next week. The knee they did arthroscopically which was good. The hand has more stitches in it than the knee. The right ankle is still in a cast and we won't be able to tell if I need the ligaments surgically repaired until 6-8 weeks when the cast comes off and we find they haven't healed on their own. Thinking positive here......
Guess I am feeling the frustration of not being able to do much. I miss cooking and I miss being able to take a shower without wrapping myself up like a mummy just to feel water on my head. These are what I use (one on my left hand to my elbow, one on my left leg from my foot to the thigh, and one on my right leg from the foot to the ankle. I have the use of my right hand to wash myself. The first few times were interesting (hubs had to help me) but now I actually do pretty much of it myself. Here is the fantastic invention:
As you can see they have different sizes for the legs and arms. I will attest that they do keep the water out! This is one of the reasons why it takes me 2 hours to take a shower, put on makeup, do my hair, and get dressed when it used to take me 30 - 45 minutes max.
Hubs still hasn't passed his drivers license for the wheelchair. He still does 50 in a 10mph zone and still bottoms out on ramps. He gets his chuckle and I get a roller coaster ride.
Happy Labor Day all!
Hubs and I did sort out the 5 photo albums that had gotten flooded in our basement (did I mention we had water to our 2nd step when our power was out last weekend?) We were able to save quite a few pictures. I haven't been down in the basement yet as I can't negotiate those stairs with my casts but I saw what we lost as I had to catalogue it when the people I had hired to do the cleanup brought it to me. Most of what we lost we were planning on throwing away anyway as we had already been sorting and cleaning the other rooms for the wedding and getting rid of things we don't need anymore. I had stored it in the basement until I rented a dumpster to take it. But I guesstimate that we lost around $5000.00 not including the carpeting and half of the walls and insulation but we aren't going to claim it on our homeowner's policy. I don't know about homeowner's insurance policies around you but here if you make more than 3 claims within a certain amount of time, you are cancelled. I am not taking that chance with a minor claim. My freezer, water pump, furnace, water softner and hot water heater were all up on cinder blocks so they were all ok. We will wait now to redo the basement this winter.
I have gotten a lot of work done for my clients this weekend along with the laundry and end of month invoicing and bill paying. Hubs set me up on the breakfast room table with a printer, computer, and internet cable so I can stay with my legs elevated. I did have to have surgery to remove the bone chips in my left knee and left palm as they were going to cause a problem but to me it was a minor surgery and just incisions to heal. Stitches come out next week. The knee they did arthroscopically which was good. The hand has more stitches in it than the knee. The right ankle is still in a cast and we won't be able to tell if I need the ligaments surgically repaired until 6-8 weeks when the cast comes off and we find they haven't healed on their own. Thinking positive here......
Guess I am feeling the frustration of not being able to do much. I miss cooking and I miss being able to take a shower without wrapping myself up like a mummy just to feel water on my head. These are what I use (one on my left hand to my elbow, one on my left leg from my foot to the thigh, and one on my right leg from the foot to the ankle. I have the use of my right hand to wash myself. The first few times were interesting (hubs had to help me) but now I actually do pretty much of it myself. Here is the fantastic invention:
As you can see they have different sizes for the legs and arms. I will attest that they do keep the water out! This is one of the reasons why it takes me 2 hours to take a shower, put on makeup, do my hair, and get dressed when it used to take me 30 - 45 minutes max.
Hubs still hasn't passed his drivers license for the wheelchair. He still does 50 in a 10mph zone and still bottoms out on ramps. He gets his chuckle and I get a roller coaster ride.
Happy Labor Day all!
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